I'm in my last week @ college and I've been seeing this 2nd year girl for a couple months. She's really into me and has made it clear; I'm into her too. I'm moving upon graduation and will be about 2 hours away from her.

She has made it clear that she wants to date me but she will not commit to a long distance relationship b/c she simply thinks they NEVER work. She has alluded to me meeting other girls and her not knowing anything about and how it would drive her crazy and so on.

So tonight she said that she would die if we stopped talking and that b/c Im leaving we need to continue to talk to eachotehr as FRIENDS.

She says that she still needs me in her life and it will be hard to know im seeing other girls but bla bla blan it will work out in the end of its meant to be.


My question is this....do I freeze her out to show her life without me before I leave so she freaks? (i know this will freak her out as we have been talking every day for months) OR do i continue to talk to her an DHV as I would normally wihtout pressuring her?


I feel that if tell her that she cant have me as a friend and peace out that shell realize how much she needs me. Is that logic right???


Thanks for any insights

Out of experience my ex wanted me to be friends (she broke up with me) i left her and didn't talk to her. a week later she was crying on the phone to me and realized the mistake she made.

I believe that if you say sorry friends won't work i really enjoyed being with you and wanted to be with you it will be hard while i still have those feelings for you.

Something along those lines i do believe she will come back to you, she seems of what you said she said. That she is really into you!

That's my opinion i hope others have input as well.

Jokerex