i've known this girl for a while, we've just been flirting with each other for the past 3 months and just recently stated to hookup, she talks about a relationship between us but idk what kind it is..... she used to jus hookup with this guy(jus hookup not dateing) now..... just recently we got into a fight and it ended up with her telling me she has feelings for me and how much she cares about me, now we've been hooking up for a while like about 1 and a half weeks, everyday she would come visit me at work or i do at her job(not everysingle day cuz i dont want to get tired of her quickly but always end up txting each other literally everyday)..... so are we in a relationship or no? she did ask me about it a couple times.....

and one more question, she tells me that she doesn't know how to get rid of her "hookup buddy"(they never fucked, jus made out a lot, I know that cuz she told me and the guy asked me for advice on how to get with her )

so guys.... any advice would be much appreciated

if you want a relationship and your unsure about wether she sees it like that just say "ok, we've been seeing each other a while and i know we both like each other. So lets make this official.

Easy enough. And as for the hook up buddy just pretend hes not even there, when she mentions him ignore it.. or divert your attention to something else.

Totti's right, just talk it over to her. That's totally cool. Just set the correct tone. The feeling that you are trying to coral her is not going to go over too well. You want her to know, that you what to find out what the rules are so you know your limits, since you have other opportunities etc. In the end, everyone is gonna be happier about it.

Just be cool about it. It's a totally normal converstion.

i completely agree ya gotta just be upfront bout it. if ya wanna be official just talk to her about it, otherwise ya might get her mad cause maybe she wants to and you justhavent taken the step (which she might be waiting for) and shell find another guy which we dont wanna have happen man! do wat you want ur the leader of your life be happy man pursue wats valuable to ya

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-moony