Hey fellas, quick questions.

I've always felt compelled to ask my GF after we have sex/finger her, did you orgasm? Usually i KNOW she did, but i like to know how many times, how intense, vaginal/clitoral....stacking orgasms...what we were doing when you orgasmed etc.

Why do i feel this need to ask? I know it's actually a common curiousity for guys.

Is it good or bad to ask?

I feel that by asking, i MIGHT have built up this expectation of her WANTING to orgasm. So last night she said she didnt orgasm after we had sex twice, 98% of the time she reaches climax, but she said she kept thinking about when she was going to orgasm and WANTING to. I told her she just has to focus on the sensation and look at me while giving her this feeling and not to worry about orgasming.

What are your thoughts? Thanks!

I used to feel the same way, but now i just take steps to make sure that shes is turned on

there are allot of good articles out to find out ways to turn a girl on in bed

If your making an effort to make her orgasm theres no need to ask her, if your doing a terrible job or a great job, she will tell you

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