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| sfehonda | PostPosted: Sat Mar 21, 2009 7:42 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sat Mar 21, 2009 7:33 pm Posts: 5 | | I met this girl at a party and we clicked really well, we hooked up and then met up a couple other times. I was a little drunk and thought it would be a good idea to ask her to be my girlfriend and thought that's what I wanted. Well now I am seriously regretting it. I now realize that I love being single and on my own, and it sucks being tied down. We haven't had sex yet, and I feel that when we do (prob soon) it'll be too late to end the relationship and i'll be stuck. We've only been going out for 3 days so the relationship hasn't really formed and I think ending it now will be best. I know everyone says don't do it by text but i'm a pussy and she's the nicest girl i've ever met, i dont know if i could do it in person. Any advice on what to say/do?
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| master0rolando | PostPosted: Sat Mar 21, 2009 7:55 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Tue Mar 17, 2009 9:41 am Posts: 50 | | you need to gently remove the tampon from your ass AND DO IT IN PERSON! and simply tell her "I'm not really interested in a relationship right now."
and if she gets upset...then fine...she probly wont...its only been three days...
i know how you feel though
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| MindFucker | PostPosted: Sat Mar 21, 2009 10:44 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Sun Jan 21, 2007 6:46 pm Posts: 158 | | Well, for the sex, 8 hours rule is just a phrase. It depends on you, on your girl, and on the ambiance from both of you and blabla. But if you don't want to be in a relationship, meet her, and tell her that. Into her eyes. If you want to be with her, but not in a relationship, tell her, don't be a liar and pussy, she'll respect that
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| nightrider767 | PostPosted: Sun Mar 22, 2009 7:44 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot |  | Joined: Thu Feb 05, 2009 10:07 pm Posts: 398 | | Dude, why are you so filled with guilt about breaking up? Ask youself that. You've got to get way past that. Even if you slept with her, why would that change anything?
Get over the guilt. It's very normal for people to go out, even sleep together, and then break up.
If you can get that point, the next step is to tell her, in person, exactly what you wrote above. It's not a neg on her t all, you just don't want a girlfriend.
Having any level of success with women takes some skills. One of them is being able to speak your mind and breaking up without turning it into a big dramatic affair.
Good luck man.
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| NINO THE BEAST | PostPosted: Mon Mar 23, 2009 2:32 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Thu Nov 13, 2008 4:44 am Posts: 74 | | Everything you just said literally just happened to me.
Nino _________________ You miss one hundred percent of the shots you dont take.
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| Tj12 | PostPosted: Mon Mar 23, 2009 8:30 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Sun Mar 22, 2009 7:44 pm Posts: 23 | | serious,
1 why ask a girl to be ur gf after a couple of dates
2 why be so pussy about dumping her
3 if u do it over a txt msg ur one sad little man
4ni think u should fuck her before dumping her, haha maybe she is a gun in the sack and ur missing out, if she isnt then oh well, free root
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