hey you guys, i got my first serious GF now.
she is my first serious one and i never had a girl like this before

all we did so far was hang out in our bedrooms and watch lame movies together, basically kiss/touch eachother and enjoy our presence together.

i feel like i need an excuse to see her, like its a date everytime i see her.
and when im downstairs (she lives with her parents) i feel like i need an excuse to go upstairs

i absolutely love doing 'nothing' with her and i really like her and everything

any advice to solve my 'i need an excuse to see my GF' issues?
thanks!

Dude,

Relax!!!

Now . . . what the hell is your question?

haha im just wondering what you guys do with your girlfriends? just hang out in eachothers room or what on what ratio do you take her out/hang out at home?

i feel like i need an excuse to drop by, not that i bore her but i think its weird to just say ill drop by because i want to see you

when i go to my friends we usually play poker, do sports or play video games or watch movies or just go out to the club.

with her.. i just chill?

alright so I assume she knows she's in this relationship haha.
Stop overanalysing everything dude! There's no exact "ratio" ur supposed to spend with ur gf. when you want to see her, go see her or get her to go to ur place.

As for what to do with her? have sex with her? haha. watching movies could get boring. try talking/just hanging out. try going on adventures in ur city/be tourists for a day. go somewhere you both haven't been before. build a deeper rapport with her and get a greater emotional connection.

Enjoy your new relationship.

Cerik that's a great question. The fact that you are thinking in those terms is huge. "I got her, now what the fu$k am I sapposed to do with her!?!".

Guys really screw up when they just cruise and expect good things to happen. You realize that it may actually take a plan. Don't ever forget that.

Sheer is right on. FInd fun and interesting things to do with her. Use your imagination. Hanging our get's to be real lame. Find big buildings, see if you can get on the roof. Whatever, just keep it interesting.

But the big picture of what really to do with her? Figure out how to make it so she is always more interested in seeing you, than you are wanting to see her. As long as she wants you more than you want her, you will have it made.

haha thanks for the replies you guys, really appreciate it.

I think i had a bit of an issue with the excuse part for seeing her. i think this is mainly an excuse i think i needed for her parents or even me? to see her.

watching a 'movie' is an excuse, watching a movie basically comes down to gazing in eachothers eyes and kissing/foreplay for hours so far


thanks you guys, and thank the game for letting me/us know how to approach the girls i/we like