I have become very adept at day 1 and have been getting consistent k and f closes. However I am having an issue transitioning these successes into relationships. There have been 2 girls over thepast couple of months that I have wanted to make my girlfriend, I have closed with more than this I just wasn't really interested in them. The girl that I am currently trying to start get more serious with I f closed on day 1... On day 2 we ant back to her place and she didn't want to have sex, we were about to leave on a month long break from college and she replied that she didn't want to because she wanted me to be thinking about her. We then decided that we didn't want to hook up with anyone else... I agreed, I start being a chump with girls like these because I am naturally pretty romantic and sensitive, a weak point of my game.

During our break I made some chump texts while drunk and she said she wasn't sure if we should be exclusive. Since then we have had phone sex multiple times and she sends me texs saying she wishes she had her arms wrappe around me. She also says that I am very sweet and that I shouldn't be or she will get used to it, while giggling.

Long build up to my question, I sent her flowers with a note that said I'm not afraid to set the bar high. Merry late Christmas. A the time I thought of was a good idea but now I think it may have been bad. If bad how bad was it and if so does anyone have any ideas on how to turn the game back on in my favor? Thanks.

Mrdotlord

well, I think you are going to have to let it play out and see what happens. The trick about giving gifts, is that they need to be given in a controlled amount, at a time beyond where they will actually make a "difference", and in a manner that is not needy.

Meaning:

You should never give gifts to escalate an interaction to take it to the next level.

You should never give gifts to display a personality trait about yourself (i.e. here are flowers to show you I am sensitive)

You should never give gifts excessively

and you should never give them at the beginning of the two of "you". Wait until you have escalated enough BEYOND the day two, day three, day four...that way when you do give them, it won't be a push in the "serious direction;" since things are already serious.

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