Every day, a day in other out? So how often?

I kind mentioned something like like this in another thread. Thanks for starting a topic.

I am in a new relationship and I worry about calling my g/f too much or not enough. Same goes for texting.

Some guys say that if shes your g/f you shouldnt worry about things like calling her. If you already have that much comfort then she wont think anything of it. I still hesitate and worry about looking needy. I know that that your game is supposed to change when you move into something serious instead of just trying to pick up, but there has to be some principles that still apply.

I call my GF whenever I feel like doing so, or when it must be done (can't find her, give her urgent info etc, planning).

Same goes for texts.

I mean, I'm not the kind of guy you talk to for hours on the phone. Same goes fo my GF. Our conversations is like.. uh.. max 25 minutes. But, on the other hand, we live close by eachother. (aka we see eachother every day).

Also, I'm trying to make my GF send the last text. A sign of non-needyness and not care-ing too much. It could just be a bad habbit >.<, but it works fine in the normal game. I think it's important not to be too needy on the phone. I mean, she won't turn it off, so you could bombard her 24/7.

Gah. I hate telephones. It's easier to love someone IRL.

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Never

She would call me every day. After a while it's like I felt we had nothing to talk about because she'd call every day and nothing new happened since the day before. I would play gameboy while we talked. Anyway we moved in together so now she doesn't need to call me. It's better this way.

Your right it depends on her level of neediness. With one of my girlfriends I had to call her like 3 times a day or she would flip (that relationship didnt last too long lol) and with another I called or texted her either once a day or every other day.

If i need and miss her, i just call her.

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Obviously it all depends on what stage the two of you are in; but if it is a deep solid relationship, then yes. Call her whenever you want to talk to her, whenever you miss her, or whenever you need her. I would hope she is doing the same! (unless of course, you built the relationship off of a different dynamic, then you'll have to slowly work into that form.)

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It seems like you are asking for a number answer. Don't worry about rules like that. It just makes you seem like your meeting requirements. It is also obvious that something that works for one person does not mean it has to work for you. My advice is Call when you want but never call without a good purpose.

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sometimes a little hand written note could say more then a phone conversation ever could.

My suggestion,

Only call when there is something you have to communicate or a point you need to get across, then get off the phone.

Alphas don't chit chat on the phone, we have an exciting life, and are way to busy for endless chatter. Right?

It's also way to easy for a girl to control the interaction and dynamic that way. How many times have you called and left messages for women and never heard back from them because they never got the message? Or, 'hey, let me call you right back', and they never do. How about 'call me back in X minutes', when you do they don't pick up. Don't give them the opportunity to play that game. The phone can be a nasty tool in the hands of women.

If you want to say 'i miss you', or 'i was thinking about you', do it in person.

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