I've been seeing the girl (MLTRred) for about two months. Nothing exclusive as I've been dating two other women as well.

I'm almost positive MLTRred has a boyfriend back home (she's in college). She's never mentioned it but I've heard it from mutual friends. BTW, nobody knows we're dating. This is a general practice of mine. I always keep all my MLTR's under wraps.

I also know that she still calls a mutual acquaintance who she they dated briefly. She's also had another acquaintance sleep at her house a few times. The two above AFC guys have bragged to me that they've hung out with her (just kissing no sex) because she is an HB9 and they qualify their asses off to me. This is how I know. They have no idea that her and i hook up. I feel no need to broadcast my conquests to anyone (this is how I can maintain my MLTR's...they know I'm discreet so they don't ever feel slutty.)

My problem is that I think she believes she is tooling me because she thinks I don't know about these other guys. I never acknowledge the competition and have never brought any of this up to her.

Would talking in a cocky/funny way about all these guys let her know that I'm so cool that I knew the whole time about her orbiters and still don't give a shit? I just feel like she thinks she's pulling one over on me and I don't like that.

BTW she'll NEVER become my primary because of silly shit like this lol...so this isn't a oneitis thing.

So...does my rule still stand of never acknowledging the competition, or do I let her know she's not tooling me because I know and don't care? It almost feels like if I acknowledge them, then it shows I care about it too much.

Thoughts?

You answered your own question right here.

If you're satisfied with the relationship, why do you care if she harbors a relatively harmless delusion? From the sound of your post she's not treating you badly, so why let your ego ruin a good thing?

My advice: instead of worrying about whether or not she knows you don't give a shit, try actually not giving a shit.

870 gave you good advice. Don`t mind me say it but this girl seems to be really slutty. If you are fine with that, use her as a F buddy, and don`t give a damn about other guys, but if that bothers you and you would want more, maybe even exclusivity from her side, then give up cause you can`t have that with those kind of girls. You could only end up hurt.

So, don`t give a damn if you can, or run away if you can`t!

Marco

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i totally agree with the guys above. i'm in a similar situation and the advice is spot-on.