Sounds like you have just joined this forum with the intent to find some perfect routine to make you the big alpha guy.

If you haven't worked on yourself to the point where you're good with people in general. Then you could alienate yourself. But the fact that you have a girlfriend only suggests that you have basic fundamentals at the least and know how to have a basic interaction and leave people thinking you're a good bloke.

I really think you should be normal and just be cool. The fact that you're the bf of one of their good friends means they will be super friendly and responsive to you. You can even tell them they look nice and it won't come across as try hard because you're already disqualified from coming onto them. The loudest in the room is the weakest. You really shouldn't need to change yourself for the sake to be liked by the peer group.

Sounds like you're an introvert. But asking some basic questions and being interested in their responses is all you need. You really don't need to make any coins disappear or do any back flip worm dances combos...

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You wanna look more alpha and the better bf? You won't with that mentality. You have to know you are. Believe it to your core that you're the best dude in any group. That takes time and investment in your self development.

There's no magic shortcut. You don't become a billionaire over night. You develop the skills that will get you there overtime.

We can provide guidelines, not blueprints. So be social, treat those guys as if they're your close friends already. Tease them, don't hold back, show them exactly who you are without giving a fuck whether they accept you or not. If you try too hard to win peoples' approval, you won.t

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I don't see what you did wrong. If you don't want to be pals, this is the way to go.
If you're worried about "looking more alpha" than her ex, you've already lost. Who gives a shit?




The bull elk doesn't give a fuck about pleasing a group, unless it's his job. Ditch this pleaser mentality. That's step #1. Then hit the gym.

This entire post, IMHO, is a display of neediness. No offense, OP. Act like the prize, not the bitch court jester.




Yes, focus on your career, fitness, and passions, and never worry about what other people think (not in your job) ever again.

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If you're worried about "looking more alpha" than her ex, you've already lost. Who gives a shit?
Of course, I also wanna be accepted and liked by the group
The bull elk doesn't give a fuck about pleasing a group, unless it's his job. Ditch this pleaser mentality. That's step #1. Then hit the gym.
This entire post, IMHO, is a display of neediness. No offense, OP. Act like the prize, not the bitch court jester

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Be alpha. "I am not here to impress your friends".