The goal of this one is to create negative emotions so that you can anchor it to someone like her boyfriend or whomever. I took parts of the Gemini Pattern, time distortion, negation, embedded commands, and the contrast principle to create this one.

Have you ever thought about the difference between dislike and hate? I think the difference is quite clear. When you dislike someone, its like you do your best to avoid that person or activity that causes you to begin to feel that feeling inside, because when you start to REALLY feel that-the worse your day goes.

On the other hand, when you hate something...well, that's a whole new level of abhorrence..like, when that happens, perhaps you'll feel a burning from within like something is inside of you, wanting to get out. A part that you do not show to others, unless you really hate that person. As you are reading this, I bet, you can vividly remember the last time that happened...

I find that it is about asking myself this very important question, "What is it about certain people, that causes us to think of that person like that, in that horrible place..to hear their voice..to see their face..to feel their presence in that distasteful, obnoxious place..in such a way..that no matter how much we try to deny our repulsion of them...it takes on a life of its own...compelling...vivid..REAL!?"

You really shouldn't allow those feelings to take over your mind. Because, studies have shown that when you let that happen you might stop, and imagine a time, in the future becoming totally overtaken by that hate and the longer it has been there, the more intense that feeling is, as if you were putting yourself closer and closer to the fire and burning inside more and more. Then, looking back on this moment, having done absolutely nothing about it when instead...you could've had that opportunity to take action now. To end your suffering. To find your own reasons to do whatever you need to do.

Where that voice inside says, "YES, I want to really hurt that person and do whatever it is in my power to make sure their existence is coming to an end."

I see where youre going with this, but i probably wouldn't use it. You talk to her about the negative, she's going to associate you with negative. If you want to hint at how much she dislikes her bf, for example, keep it brief and emphasize how much fun and positive you are in opposition to how negative he is. Working with negative emotion is risky biz man, be careful.

I agree with wigeda. This is very tricky one. The thing is that you really gotta make it focus on bf or who ever in there. Because with this it seems like you can push a person to hate them selves? push them to suicide? I know it seems like an extreme interpretation but re-read paragraph four. And see if you see what i see.

ummmm ... If I may be of assistance ..

I wouldnt do that if I were you.

The pattern I would rate as being medium effective however the way you are explaining the reason for using it I would say that it is going to backfire on you. If you have tried it on someone then I can well imagine you already know this.


this is incorrect .. will work better like this

"If you have you ever thought about the difference between dislike and hate then you know the difference is quite clear."

because in your adapted version you are asking a question and then subsequentially answering your own question .. it requires no involvement of the target ... if you continue on without her involvement then you are going alone. Better to make it an IF/THEN sequence where you have not asked a question but rather stated something resident in her mind .. to alter her state. See ?
This is ok language however if you take it out of context you can easily see where the backfire can occur .. especially if you haven't hooked her imagination yet and continued without her being in rapport. She could start thinking that way about you (and probably will) because anyone who posses a hypothetical question and then answers it themselves are usually put in the boring section with the window lickers right away.

I wont go any further because it's not my intention to beat you up .. I really like seeing people experiment with patterns and super encourage you to continue .. just be aware that when you get them firing on all pistons they have power that you dont want to lose control of ... I've done it and it's like a loose cannon rolling across the deck.

but hey .. have fun
MK