| Hey guys,
Ok the following is an NLP Routine I'm planning. Purpose: To anchor the sensation my girlfriend got when I asked her out, want to be able to bring the sensation back whenever she feels down.
I'll try to write it in bullet-points so it's not too long and you guys can read it:
1) Figure out Representational System: "Think back to yur favourite holiday, describe it to me." - Will listen for clues as to whether she's predominantly auditory, visual, etc ...
2) Once I know, will proceed: "In order to do this, I need you to get yourself comfortable; lean against wall behind you, close your eyes and relax your shoulders."
3) "Now, in your mind, re-create the scene, last <day> when I asked you to become my girlfriend. Remember the few seconds just before I asked, really re-create the scene in your mind. Remember the <insert some visual/audio/etc descriptions based on what I discovered in 1>
- at this stage, should I help to re-create the scene for her ? Like, prompting with the different things that were going on whilst we were there, conversation from down the hall, where we were, etc ...
4) Remember how you felt, when we kissed and you knew I was going to ask. Take that excitement and let the warm glow it created rush through your body. Let the butterflies build up in your stomach and take a deep breath *TRIGGER ANCHOR: Will squeeze both her shoulders and will be wearing nice aftershave so that her deep breath will create an anchor that way*.
5) Remember how good it felt and how much you wanted me to do this *Kiss*.
- at this point, I would hope that the feeling was created and the anchor is set, and that she enjoyed the experience.
Do you think this routine would work ? Also, if I wanted to strengthen the anchor in the future, how could I amplify her feeling without using the same scenario/situation ?
Sorry for the longevity of my post but thank you for any help I get in advance.
Thanks !
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