Does anybody know it?

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There are 3 types of BJ pattern
so here they are

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Pattern I
Kevin Kupal, mindlist: "Basically, it's a 3-step procedure.

1. Ask her about anything she really really loves to eat
2. Describe the sensation of eating that food and amplify with gustatory gusto
3. Link it to your dick using a "dick point".

Let's put flesh into it? Sure.
Me : Hey Alicia. What do you love to eat ? Something that really makes you salivate just by thinking of it ?
Alicia : Oh... I love fresh ripe mangoes from Hawaii / strawberries from Ohio... oh yes...

Me: Ripe mangoes huh? Mmmm....that's yummy. I don't know if you can IMAGINE... SUCKING into one sweet, delicious, juicy mango NOW... mmm... can you taste the sweetness of the mango... swishing INSIDE YOUR MOUTH... mmm... soo tasty... doesn't that give you lots of pleasure and ha-PENIS just thinking about that? Mmm... I bet, if there were a mango here NOW, you'd WANT IT IN YOUR MOUTH (point to dickee!).

Hehehe... this pattern makes me salivate myself... hope I don't go looking for... (gasp)"

Pattern II. Here's the "real" BJ pattern:) Ross Jeffries:
"I was just sitting here thinking about taking a vacation, if you could imagine your ideal vacation spot what would it be like? (Stop and let her talk)

You know, I think its so interesting how people connect with their hopes and their desires and their daydreams, right? ... I was reading this article the other day about compulsions and it got me to thinking about the difference between compulsion and anticipation.

I mean, have you ever come home from a hard day of work and the boss was a jerk and kept piling the papers up on you desk and its like all you can think of is dropping your clothes and getting into that steamy hot bath or shower.

Its like before you even step in you can already feel that heat working its way through every muscle in your body and all your frustrations just drop away and all you can feel is the pleasure of that warmth just shooting through every part of you.

And then there's that moment of sliding in where you really let that pleasure take you and it just feels great doesn't it?

Yeah well, do you like chocolate? (Or is there a food that when you see it you absolutely have to put it in your mouth?). I mean, can you stop and remember a time when you saw a piece of chocolate and your mouth is already tasting it before you even put it in, and you can already taste that sweetness against your tongue and you can feel the special rich texture of it against your tongue as well. You know that texture that really good chocolate has.

And then there's that moment, that moment when the first molecule of chocolate touches your tongue and you know it's inside your mouth and you just want to keep it there because it's so rich and so good. And there's that extra special warmth when you swallow that sweetness down.

Or then maybe, you know like sometimes you meet someone and you're really attracted to them and you both know it and there's that moment when your eyes lock, it's that special look just before you kiss, just before you do it the very first time and you're trembling with anticipation and your heart is pounding because you're thinking about how good it's going to be.

It's like every physical moment of that relationship is enfolded/contained or rolled into that first touch of the lips and there's that excitement, with that first soft contact of the lips where you don't even know if you are touching or not but then, oh man, it's like a jolt of electricity all through you.

(See I think what happens is the conscious mind goes down into the subconscious and brings back up all these thoughts, images, desires and fantasies, and you may think those thoughts are above me, but really I think they're blow me _____ because you're coming from a much deeper part and your mine aren't you?)"

Pattern III. Freeqshow, Clifford's Seduction Newsletter:
"Here's an email I have used to great success:

"Your notes are sooooooo sweet, I could just... well, you know what I could just do. Anyways, I so enjoyed talking to you today. Time just seems to fly by doesn't it?

So I was thinking, is there some fruit that you just can't wait to put in your mouth? Like if you were to think about it, you could just feel how the skin would taste on your lips, and as you took that first delicious bite you could just imagine how soft and tender it feels as it slips past your lips and begins to caress your tongue with a hundred flavors that you just can't wait to have. And as that nectar started to flow, to the point where your mouth became filled with all those sweet warm juices that you love so much, you just knew you would die if you spilled even one drop. I don't know about you, but I think about things like this all the time.

You know, all this has got me thinking... you ever have one of those Sugar Daddy's. You know, that caramel candy on a stick that takes all day to eat. You know I think that thing is about six inches long when you first unwrap it but the more you nibble on it and suck it deep inside your mouth and just let your tongue do it's work...eventually you come to the point where it's real soft and you know that's just about the best thing you ever had in your mouth and you just feel all that hot warm gooey candy just slide down your throat and when you're all finished you just let out a little sigh of ecstasy because it was so good and you know you can always have one when you really want it. You know?"

So how do naturals "ask for a blow job" without all this descriptive NLP infused descriptive talking.

I admit that i have not studied or tried using any NLP routines, but how do the rest of us get a girl to blow us..? (you know the type I mean, no matter how many times you bang em and how much they love it, they still wont suck you off) (on second thoughts am I the only one who gets that?)

-Rocky Balboa

Romeo do u use any NLP? And if u do, do u think its effective?, ive personaly only used things like trance words and mirroring but never pattering, ive always been skeptical....

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Never have, prolly never will

Not that type of NLP at least, thats creepy one

The solution is here:

"Lead and she will follow"

If you tease her well enough, and make her want it even more, then you can do as much as you want

Here is how you do it...

Turn her on, kiss kiss then back up

Touch her neck slightly with the point of your finger, smell her, back off

Touch the mid part of her chest, smell her and kiss her neck, back off

Go back at it again and start breathing heavily, once she starts breathin heavily with you... position your legs or arm in touch with her pussy, so she can get stimulated, you DO NOT use your hand, you use your leg or your arm so it seems incidental

Then you mossage her breasts 'till you can see her moaning...

Up to this point you have done a very good FKIN job turning her on

So my favorite lines comes along...

PUA: You want me, dont you?
HB: Yes, i want you
PUA: Say you want me inside you...
HB: I want you inside me..
PUA: Say it louder..
HB: I want you inside me!

(I have done this in person, phone and even internet, crazy huh?)

Then if you want a blowjob, just stand up, make her sit down and say "I want a blowjob, but you only get some sucks, next time you'll get more"

And so on...

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"I want your mouth around my cock."

Don't ask. Tell. Also, be willing to go down on her. I absolutely LOVE eating pussy. There are very few things that turn me on more than being cheek-bones deep in a chick, and if you're willing to take a turn down there first, most of the time you don't even need to say anything. She's on her way down by the time you're back up (assuming, of course, you're any good. Practice boys, it makes a difference).

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hahahah

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-Giacomo Casanova

wow nice stuff.



Magic J .

nice monkey and romeo. I think this NLP routine can be shortend alot and then sound somewhat like a normal conversation. Even if it doesn get her to go down on you right there it could add to your game. I remember this guest speaker in one of David D's programs say " as long as she thinks your a sex dinamo thats all that matters." so heres wut i would do.

get her to ask what you like in a relationship, what you enjoy the most.

Me:I absolutly love the feel of anticipation (pause)
Her: what do you mean?
Me: Have you ever got that feeling, like after a hard or stressful day at work and you just want to relax and rewind in a hott bath or shower. and as you turn the knob for the hott water first the steam allows that hott sensation to flow through you, (pause) and you just cant wait to get in.
then when you finally do it makes things worth it a 100 times more.
Her: wow thats really deep
Me: see those shivers your feeling right now(pause)

Me: You feel the same thing while anticipating a first kiss. and there's that moment when your eyes lock, it's that special look just before you kiss, just before you do it the very first time and you're trembling with anticipation and your heart is pounding because you're thinking about how good it's going to be.

Her: omg omg (now if she says something along the lines of im really hot right now your fuckin in, just tease and escalate from there.

Me: See i think is the conscious mind goes down into the subconscious and brings back up all these thoughts, images, desires and fantasies, and you may think those thoughts are above me, but really I think they're blow me _____ because you're coming from a much deeper part and your mine aren't you?


ok i dont know about you guys but i think thats money. i mean im gonna field test it tonight but i think that will work wonders for all of us even if she doenst blow you right after it. because we all have techniques like monkey's and romeo's to fall back on.

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Do something for her, and she'll want to repay the favour, especially if you're not fucking. Also a great way to GET to fucking if you are meeting a bit of LMR. Once she's giving you some suckin, say (very matter of factly):
"You know what? I'm feeling like I'm gonna last all night. We may as well have sex, it'd be beneficial for both of us".

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HAHAHA difference. Your so damn sly.
In my experience Bj's just seem to be a natural part of escalation. I dont think i could pinpoint anything in particular in my technique.
If you are getting her off usually she can't wait to see what she can do to you.[/quote]

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xx

WOW. That shit is pretty fucking stupid. And by 'pretty' I mean 'really really really really'.

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Fuck that NLP garbage.

I must admit, I've never said anything as direct as "I want your mouth around my cock." when trying to get a blowjob. But I have no doubts that giving a woman a command like that in the correct situation would work quite well. I never really thought about what my particular "blowjob pattern" was, or if I even had one until now. But I came up with something I think.

What I found is that Romeo basically said more or less what my pattern is, but I have a few things to add.

1) In addition to stimulating her pussy secretively with your body, have her do the same to you. I'm guessing by this stage you'll have a raging boner, so make sure she notices it. Whether shes laying on top of you and its stabbing her in the stomach, or your laying next to each other and it hits her arm. Once she feels your dick, its basically on. All you have to do in continue with the flow of the foreplay and continue to lead her. Once you begin to stimulate her with your hand/fingers on the outside of her pants, she should already be doing it to you. She will either begin to unbutton your pants, or wait for you to move the foreplay to the next level by doing it yourself and to her. All of course depending on how sexually comfortable and attracted she is to you. So make sure she feels your wang, once she does, your golden. And please, don't make an ass out of yourself and place her hand on your dick, thats so tacky.

2) Don't use NLP tactics. That is unless your a douche-bag.

3) Giving her some lovin before you get yours is a sure-fire way to make sure you get blowjob. Though, its risky, depending on the type of women you pick up (even then you have little re-assurance of her being clean) she could have anything from some crabs to a nice case of herpes waiting for you down there. Don't get me wrong, I love eating seafood more than most guys, its a great part of human sexuality. However, this is a tactic I used to use, until one day I just realized I don't want to take the risk. But, I will tease a girl. And by tease, I mean finger. If you don't feel like the idea of eating poon-tang on the first date, strip her down to her thong and finger away. Go down there, spit on it, go close enough to where she thinks your gonna munch on it. Kiss her thighs and legs, continue fingering, then start kissing her again. She'll wanna blow you by this point. She still feels like she got some, and will repay you back graciously.


Thats all I have to add. I think.

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Hehe.
And you my friend are correct.
If you read this, how was melb hoe, and 'great' is not an answer. I'm sorry but your msgs suck.

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- Difference

meth i agree with you completely. i just like to use that nlp bullshit not to get her to do things but to get her hott. you and romeo use the same method as i do when it comes to the actual point in the escalation. but i like using nlp as a turn on and then go back to my normal game. just my preference though. theres no one way to play the game

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