I've been browsing these forums for a while and I really enjoy this section. I've always had an interest in NLP for all types of situations and some of the advice and comments on here have been very helpful, so great job guys!

Been thinking about this for a while but haven't been able to figure it out - can you reframe the past?

Say you came on too strong on a girl and she thinks of you as a perv or too needy or an ass or whatever. Even say someone at work thinks you're an idiot.

Is it possible to reframe these situations after the fact, like days or even weeks down the line, in your favor?

thanks

I've had similar problems with girls I allready knew before I learned nlp who weren't attracted to me and it really wierds them out when they wake up the next day lying beside them and causes major problems between you and her as friends.

My advice is cut all contact for a month or two and then come back to her as a changed man and it's like starting from the beginning again.

If you know her well this shouldn't be difficult.

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