I have some questions for experienced nlp users.

1- Think about you anchored the girl you love by a touch (for example a point on her arm) or anchored her to your cologne, does she feel the same way when she is touched by another guy from the same anchored point or when she smells the same cologne on another guy? If the answer is yes, this way of anchoring can be dangerous to be used on the girl that we love cause there is a probability that she can get the sensation of orgasm to another guy. Please comment.

2- Is there any way to remove a weak or powerful anchor? If so how?

3- Before anchoring the girl, should I first try to understand which way of anchor (sound, smell or touch) will be most effective on her? And is there an easy way or technique to learn this?

4- How many times should I touch the same point of her body to complete the anchor? And after everytime I touch her, should I change the topic and start again for another touch?

Thanks in advance for your help.

1- If someone knows the anchor, he can use it.

2- Stack em, say you have an anchor with leads to pain, stack pleasure on it until it dulls out.

3- The easiest way to anchor is by using 2 or more senses (say something in a certain voice tone, and move your hand in a specific way[auditory and visual]) or any other combination you can think of.

4- You set the anchor ONCE, then you re-set it by doing the same process again. it should be there if it was done correctly.

One way to think of a person is like a state machine. Let me ask you this what causes the current state of a person?

An anchor is just a reminder of a state. The stronger the anchor the more likely to drive the person to the state. Anchors have competition with all the stimuli currently present. Just like with Pavlov a tuning fork was struck and the dog salvates. Everytime the anchor is fired when at the peak of that state the anchor gets stronger. Now the more unique the anchor the less likely that it will be diluted. If you anchor by touch on the highly sensitive parts of the body like the hands then the touch must be exact and done in a unique manor.

So some key things to remember do anchors at the peak of the state make it unique and repeat to strengthen.

After looking at the thread again.

I want to make the point that everytime you repeat anchoring at the peak of the state the anchor will get stronger.

So lightly squeezing and rubbing her right wrist everytime she gets those doggy bowl look will develop this anchor/state connection. If you fire off this anchor as your plane is crashing obviously the high level of emotion will dilute this anchor. So the more emotion or the stronger the state when the anchor is set the more it will come back when fired.

I had one of the best sports psychologist in the 80's and a big part of his training was routines to get you into the proper state for peak performance. So anchors don't just work on someone else but can be used on yourself. So the cool thing is when your setting Anchors on the target your also Anchoring this success to yourself.

As an experienced NLPer myself who is studying the subject at an advanced level (within a professional body endorsed by Richard Bandler) I can safely say you've asked the same question 5 times!

To "set" an Anchor, talk to a female get her Opened, Hooked and Transitioned (into a normal conversation where there is comfort).
Ask her "three" questions she can say "yes" to. For example, "Remind me your name is Anna?" "We are in X Nightlcub" "You work at Starbucks?"

Then ask her to think of a time when she was in love/feeling successful/adventurous etc, as she gains excitment touch a point on her arm just before the "height" of her excitment. Think of it like a rollercoaster, the excitment is when you just before you see the peak levelling out TOUCH!
As she carries on talking her excitment will drop and she may not even notice the touch.
Break her state by "asking for the time" distracting her (i.e. is that someone famous over there?)
Re-touch the "spot" you set the anchor at, she'll re-feel that excitment.

Its highly unlikely another guy can trigger this Anchor unless you set it in a common place (i.e. her Shoulder).

Practice on your male friend when he talks about something he finds passionate even if it is playing a video game- remember just before the "peak"

Thank you very much for your help