Hey guys.

I'm a Master NLP prac. However I studied NLP mainly to improve myself, control my state, to create and enhance my career and lifestyle options and to be able to help other people improve their lives for the better in terms of empowering them to go after the things they really want in life.

However I have come to realise that there are things in NLP that will definitely enhance my game.

Pick-Up is VERY new to me and until recently I was in relationships. I have known that I have a lot to offer but I haven't known how to present it which was a big problem for me but it has recently become very clear to me that it's as simple as:
Approach a girl, make her laugh, get her number, take her out and then decide to make advances towards sex or a relationship and THEN tell her about all the awesome things I do when I have decided she is worthy.

Approach is very new to me and I have only started doing it in the last few weeks but only in night clubs. However due to all the self development I have undergone it hasn't taken much for me to get myself into a state where I am comfortable and confident. It was more of a question of deciding to start doing it rather than having much Approach Anxiety. I have had relatively good success so far with night game as well as a few rejections which I am very desensitized to and laughed off quite easily.
Now, I have not been using much NLP in my approaches, except for maybe a bit of mirroring and matching to enhance rapport and using my sensory acuity to know when to touch a girl and escalate. My main question here is to other NLP pracs. What NLP do you use with pickup and what would you recommend?

That being said, daygame currently scares me and is something I feel I need to work up to.
My ideas for getting into daygame involve simply stopping beautiful women and giving them a nice compliment and then walking away, or if I'm out for something to eat and the waitress is making me feel very welcome I might say something like "You have a very welcoming smile and it makes me feel good here, the way it should be" and leave it at that etc.
Are these good ideas? What else would you guys recommend in working up to successful daygame?

Thanks

Comment on something going on in the immediate area. Do it in a manner that you would speak and behave when talking to a girlfriend, not in a manner that you would speak and behave when talking to a stranger. This is all about energy exchange. If you have a solid masculine vibe, strong eye contact/body language and a dominant/playful persona, you can open with literally anything to have girls smiling at you and wanting to engage in a little fun convo with you.

Sounds great. Awesome advice, thanks!

I'm still curious to know what NLP people are using in Pick-Up, so post it up people.

I use a lot of embedded commands. I use fractionation, some canned/memorized patterns, themes, self points. And a lot of other stuff.

Memorized patterns are too much work to remember and if you have even the slightest case of AA when you approach you will screw them up since it is harder to remember a script when you are nervous. Even if you don't usually have AA I think it is possible to get AA through worrying that you may screw up your 'lines'. So remember some commands and suggestions and some way you might like to set them up and use them on and off throughout the conversation. That's my opinion anyway.

Actually, they're not. Just read over it a couple times and you can kinda come up with more as you go, and if you pause and it takes a second for you to come up with more, this will actually build tension and make the emotions stronger. I think this is called a tension loop? Can anyone correct me?

But really, if you want, I could tell you how I've been sneaking big ol patterns into conversations. And the first time I did it I was supprized that it worked. I even stalked in my pattern because i was surprised that it was working.

I have been surprised by how NLP/SS works as well. I had a girl lean in on me and try to kiss me, I blew it by jumping back from her. A few days later she leaned in on me again and again I jumped back. It happened so suddenly and so bluntly I freaked! When it works it works amazingly!!

My teacher had me go out and build rapport with people for practice so I practiced rapport on a guy in a vitamin shop while asking about supplements and he would not stop talking, in fact he even blew off another customer to keep chatting with me even though I told him I was not going to buy anything. Finally I broke rapport and tried to bow out of the conversation and he would not stop. Finally my girlfriend walked out and he still would not stop talking with me. It got to the point where I was giving clues that I had to go like "I better see what my girl is doing" that didn't work. Then I said "It was good talking to you" and he still wouldn't let me go. When I finally did get an out he said "Come back if you want those test boosters or if you just want to talk"

My girlfriends cousin hated every boyfriend she ever had but I built rapport with her too. I recently had a cold and so did my girlfriends cousin. Well she texts my girl asking how I am, telling her I am funny she likes me. She said I am handsome (nothing wrong with her eyesight) and how good I look in a picture she saw of me. Now she is saying that she has a crush on some guy and from some of the things she described about him it sounds like it could be me and shes a pretty good looking girl herself.

There have been other things I noticed since learning NLP and even though I am usually pretty shy with girls once I get going they tend to make themselves open to me which was not always the case before NLP. I am new to pua and game so I still need advice and hope to learn from people who are more advanced in things like dealing with AA, openers, blending other styles with my NLP and things like that. I am happy to give advice to anyone who can share ideas with me or anyone who just wants to talk NLP or Speed Seduction.

Dude,I would like to know how you sneak them in.I only use Ross Jeffries favourite “you know what I find is so interesting" then I proceed with my pattern.

I would like to know how you do it.hope to hear from y'all soon.

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