does anybody want to come up with some patterns that actually work and focus on the self as opposed to a shared frame or solely on the girl. I get the impression that most patterns are for hopeless romantics or for those that want to pretend they are. Im not talking about cocky and funny, Im talking about patterns that focus on your experiences and yet are able to incite emotions in her.

This would be a sort of story telling but in pattern language. Or instead, or inaddition to stories it could simply be talking about ones traits and not necessarily traits that are romantic in nature. if I come up with something ill post it im curious to know if anybody knows what im getting at