| Get Igor Ledochowski's The Power Of Conversational Hypnosis, before you take that course, there's a bonus eight hour course on having great conversation. Study that first, then go into Conversational Hypnosis... also there's a guy named Marcus Oakey who gives away a brilliant free book on his site Yourcharismacoach.com where you can learn some other great conversational skills as well.
Master having great conversations, starting great conversations, learning about new people. The more you learn to have fun, the more natural it'll be for you to just start talking to people, and then you don't enter the frame with any quirkiness, or awkwardness, just a fun frame of, "I'm Either Going To Have A Great Experience, or a Fun Experience."
I was at a bar last night, approached a woman, said "Hi," she rolled her eyes and turned away... "Wow," I said, "okay... hey no problem... I often don't like to talk to guy's in fedora's either." She turned and said, "It's not that, I'm just not here for that." I looked at her, "Not here to talk to people, got you..." Turned around, and looked at two other women, "Hi, are you two here to talk to people, that woman there says she isn't, I'm .... and I like meeting people." They laughed and we started talking. You see, when you have in mind that you'll either have a Great Experience, or a Fun One, rejection becomes fodder for your next conversation.
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