Extremely new to NLP but is it possible to use this sort of technique to link a girls orgasm to, say, holding her hand or touching her ear. Might have the wrong end of the stick but it's my understanding this may be possible.

It is... but it's hard, dangerous, and not recommended. An orgasm is one of the most intense things a woman feels. Messing with something like this can be very harmful, and as far I know forbidden.

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It's easy and it's hardly forbidden, nor is it in dangerous, or wrong. Come on guys. It's called Erotic Hypnosis, you can find a great program on it by David Shade and Major Mark Cunningham.

What you're fully referring to on the NLP aspect is anchoring. I've done it with text messaging, statements, and more with some girlfriends. There's nothing more powerful than being able to send your girl a simple text, turn off your phone, don't respond to any of her text, have her come to your door and tell you that she is soaking wet.

You can do it very quickly doing hypnosis and you can set the anchor anywhere. But if you want to do it without her awareness, it involves actually giving her an orgasm during sex.

For safesty--I urge you to do this process with a WORD and a TOUCH, that way you have to do both to activate it, and you can't accidently activate it. True story, a master hypnotist I know, hypnotized a girl to have an orgasm with a simple grab of her arm, he was dancing with her on the floor, implanting the seeds, getting her hot and bothered, and her boyfriend comes by, pushes him, grabs her arm, and she comes... we had to run out of there... that is unethical.

Touch and Word.

So basically, when she is beginning to orgasm, touch whatever place you want to anchor the orgasm to, and use the word, "Sexxy, Sweets, Hottie," whatever word you want--best to be a nickname for the bedroom. She'll come and the sensation will be there.

If you can do it multiple times, all the better. Then in the morning, simply begin to slowly access that anchor. It'll take a few times to get there, but, eventually, you'll just have grab and say those words and she'll come.

I still say it's dangerous. You can make a girl super obsessive about you with this, which you may regret later. The October Man, as far as I know is concerned about something like this, and that is a FORBIDDEN pattern... for a very good reason.

Don't get me wrong. I'm not against NLP. It can be very useful and helpful. I'm just saying that it's too powerful to just mindlessly use it on every second girl you hit it off with.

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I understand your concern. You are absolutely right. Whenever you do something that brings a great deal of pleasure into a person's body and life, you run the risk of them becoming obsessed over you. And that can be dangerous, and that can most assuredly be something that people don't want in their lives.

You are absolutely right.

The only thing is that I wonder if you would maintain that something like The Deep Spot technique, which is the sticking of your middle finger deep into the vaginal canal, rubbing what is structurally known as the A spot in a woman, right abover her cervix, which is known to create massive vaginal orgasms, will make her any less obsessive.

Could it not be argued that men who have given women great sex, get away with a lot of stuff from women, get loyalty, and endless support. Most women would agree.

The October Man pattern is the linking of one's sexual identity to yourself... thus a key part of her identity becomes lost if you're not around, that is cruel and that can certianly create obsession.

However, this is just an act of pleasure. She'll always be able to reach orgasm with other people, she'll always be in control of her body. You'll simply have a special way that other guys don't have of touching her that gets her hot and bothered.

Okay perhaps I've overreacted it a bit. If done with caution it can be really good stuff. I might look into NLP a little bit more in detail some other day when I have time. Not only for women, but self hypnosis also interests me. I have some small things I want to get rid of, and I think it would be a good way.

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