This is the Pattern:

"Hey, did you ever meet someone, and just instantly knew that you had to get to know this person better (point to yourself)? Maybe as you went inside and really got all excited about how much fun it'd be to get to know him and how curious and intrigued you were feeling? As you REMEMBER THOSE FEELINGS AS WE'RE TALKING, I'm just curious, do you first imagine how much fun they'd be to hang out with, and then get intrigued, or do you get intrigued first and then imagine how much fun this person would be (point to yourself)?"

1) ''As you went inside'' (Inside where?)

2)''do you first imagine how much fun they'd be to hang out with'' (Who is ''They''?)

3) I'm just curious, do you first imagine how much fun they'd be to hang out with, and then get intrigued, or do you get intrigued first and then imagine how much fun this person would be (point to yourself)?"
Can you write that phrase in other words?

for the first question, she will fill in the gap with her imagination, could be inside her house, or her mind, or her car, shell fill that in, with whatever it is she actually went inside of when she got really excited about how much fun itd be to get to know him.

for the second question, they refers to the guy that her mind is refering to to in the overall pattern, itd be the same person as "him" was earlier in the pattern.

for the third question, yes you could use different wording. just make sure to do your self point when you refer to "this person" and how much fun they would be.