| This is a technique I am weary of putting up on the board for it's complete power. I wanted to write it originally a month ago, but thought against it, then someone posted an article about psychopaths, and this technique was among the major uses that a psychopath does to seduce. This technique is difficult to implement without coming by as creapy or weird, since it involves a very strong eye contact, it requires understanding how to disarm and build rapport instantly. And because it's a difficult technique to execute, I figured what the hell. If you do it. Good for you.
The technique works before you speak, and while your speaking back and forth. If you don't keep the conversation going and haven't turned it to an intimate subject, this technique will turn off the girl, as her conscious mind will get a chance to catch up. The easy way to stop is to look away from her when conversation is slowing down--if you've done it right, she should start the conversation back up to recapture your attention. It's a perfect way to tell if you've completely captured her attention.
The Hypnotic Gaze is known as the soft stare. If you've been on Youtube and seen the Hypnotic thief in Italy, you've seen an example of the hypnotic gaze. It is the simply looking someone in the eyes while allowing your eyes to become unfocused. In the right context, if you have her attention, you will keep her attention, she will feel as if you have an intimate understanding of her, and the more you talk about her world the more she'll give you the keys to her world. And she'll follow you anywhere. Add to this, some mirroring and leading, and she will be putty in your hands.
I do recommend you save this technique for someone you're really interested in, or not closing the person if you're not really interested. Because the more personal you become, the more she'll open up and the closer she'll come to you.
This is not a hypnotic pattern, this is a plain straight out induction. I've talked to a woman using this technique, and two hours later, she's holding her drink in her hand, having not taken a sip, and all I was talking about was her clothing and her life in general.
Two things to remember. In this state they respond better to direction and not questions. Open ended questions further your connection with her. "In what way," "Tell me about..." if you want her to leave with you, "Let's go outside, let's go to my place, let's go to your place," if you want her number, "Give me," "Tell me," "Write your," "Put your," avoid, how, what, should, would, could, these words weaken the state she's in. And if you want to cut your flaking down (I had to learn this the hard way after I'd get the girls riled up and get their phone number--for one reason or another I didn't want to take them home that night)--whatever language you use to get the number, "tell me, In what way, You should," should be used several times through the conversation in a different tone, anchoring it. And when you drop a text or call, the moment she picks-up, you use those same words. It cut my flaking by 70%.
Be careful and have fun.
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