Hey guys.

Recently I've been thinking....

All of us here understand that people fall in love not with other people. Instead, with the image they create of other people within their own minds. Notice how, whenever you fell in love with someone or got really attached to someone, you first visualized yourself together or doing fun things. This confused your nervous system because your unconscious mind felt some of these things actually happened and therefore you felt more connected to the other person than they did to you. After all, the shared experiences were only in your own mind.

So, here's my thought: make her think of you while you're not with her. Instead of having time away from you be a bad thing for the seduction process, make it a positive. Make her time away make her more and more addicted, so in her time away she thinks of you... constantly.... and therefore falls for you... deeper... and deeper.... even though you do little yourself.

Now, I already know some ways of doing this. For example...
- Future Projections
- Time Bridge ( ie setting up a D2 before leaving them )
- Role Playing
- Time Distorts ( imagine it's five years down the road and our friends ask us how we met..... )

What I'm wondering is, how can I strengthen this further? I'm thinking of shoving an actual post hypnotic suggestion into the mix, and don't know how to go about it without it being creepy or weird. ( For me, NLP comes across as smooth... normal conversation. If it won't fit, then I won't use it. ) Something like anchoring myself to her favourite activity or hobby. Or saying something like "It's amazing though, now that we've talked about this you're going to remember me whenever you do this thing" or whatever. Basically, I want to anchor thoughts of me to something she often does, thereby making her think of me often without me having to lift a finger, thereby making her more attracted and more comfortable with the thought of me even though I'm not doing anything myself.

So, any thoughts? Ideas are welcome even if they're not fully worked out. We can help each other with the details, and together we can create something worthwhile.

Talk to me,

Thesis.

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breakthrough comfort system would work great here!
Dont get that much into nlp patterns etc they are really not important in game and dont help u much

The easiest natural game way of handling it would be to assume after the first few minutes that you will be seeing her again. Regardless of how the interaction ends up, if you assume (and act like) that the two of you will at least cross paths out in your daily lives, you can sprinkle in cues throughout your set that you two have a future of interaction. Reference that with her without making any conclusions- we are probably going to bump into eachother soon. For instance, if you find out she lives in the same area as you, goes to the same school, or whatever, that gives you a legitimate chance that you will have another interaction.

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-The good can never be measured, but the great can never be controlled-

The notion that the unconscious mind/subconscious mind/wider mind cannot tell the difference between what is imagined and what is not imagined is not true. It's an out of date way of thinking the psychology and personal development world. If I vividly imagine that I've cut myself then I might well be able to get a certain response out of my body and my brain function. But it will not be the same response as if I actually had cut myself. I can get so wrapped up in a horror movie that I might jump at a particular scene as if the killer really was coming to get me. But I still know it's a movie and not real. And not just in my conscious mind. My subconscious knows what a movie is too. It's seen enough of them.

We have representations of people in our heads. But that's not how love develops. We don't automatically fall in love with someone just because we imagine having fun with them. We're all different and we all fall in love with people in different ways and for different reasons.

The mind can easily get rid of a post hypnotic suggestion it doesn't want and will automatically do this in time anyway as a natural process of the evolution of continued thought.

Trying to control someone's thoughts is a really daft and bad idea. Instead, focus on becoming the type of person people miss when they are not around them. Become that person and it happens naturally. And you don't have to do anything dodgy to achieve it.