Hi guys. so theres this girl that i talk to who goes to my church and her name is taylor. and recently she had a boyfriend cheat on her. he had sex with his ex several times and taylor found out about that and dumped him. Im not positive on this but i think a few days later taylor tried to give him another chance but he rejected her. and he left taylor for his ex. anyway, taylor still likes that guy, and she is pretty hurt by him right now. anyway. i kinda like taylor. so do you guys know any kind of nlp routine or language pattern that may get him off of taylors mind? or anything that would even have a chance of getting him off of taylors mind? thanks guys.

You can create a custom pattern that'll help her forget about the past and give you a chance.

I'll give you an example, you can use it or base on it to create your own:

The setup:
You:
"Taylor,
I want to tell you something that's going to shock you... in a good way. But really need to tell you this. Ok?"

Her: Ok

You:
"Well, I've been having this dream about you. And in this dream you seem kind of upset about your love life. I wanted to tell you if you need someone to listen, I'm here."

Her: (let her talk and think you're only a helpful friend for a moment, this will give you rapport)

You: "Well, I have this friend Karen and she was telling me how her boyfriend cheated on her and she was really hurt. She told me her friend Ana told her "what comes along first is not what comes along for the best" and that she just had to LET GO ALL THE OLD FEELINGS and OPEN UP TO SOMETHING NEW (self point). And I agree, I believe God or whatever you believe, someone above us, has to have a plan for our life (do a gesture with your hand between you and her), sometimes someone who really cares and will LISTEN CAREFULLY is someone you really want in your life. Me, I believe when you ENJOY AN OPPORTUNITY that's when you know happiness is here. With me, that happens a lot of times.
And you don't have to THINK THE WAY I DO, I respect whatever idea you might have, but this is something nice to think about isn't?

(Now, let her talk. Pay attention to what she's saying. And begin eliciting her values for a relationship)

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"Their compliance is,
'Does she grab your hand?' F*ck you! I want to grab her mind. If I can
grab her mind, she'll be grabbing whatever I want, any way I want her to." - Ross Jeffries

bro, women need time to heal between break-ups. Usually a woman who is willing to go back to her ex after knowing hes cheating isn't thinking properly. Shes in a state of distress and needs time to let it all smooth over. Dont play any games in this situation. Sincerely tell her that you are there for her if she ever wants to talk and leave your ear open to everything she says. Don't try to make any moves on her at all at this point. If she makes the choice to have coffee with you and confide in you then your probably doing pretty well. Chasing a girl after a breakup is bad news in general.

one last note. Women who go back to their cheating ex boyfriends arent usually the type of women you want to date especially since he left her for the ex. The question YOU should be pondering is "do i want to date someone like this." Any girl thats willing to go back to someone who cheats usually has major self esteem problems and might not be worth your energy