A major point here is how much connection/ (Rapport) exists between you two, how often you do the anchoring and how big is the emotion built around the anchor.

Because we are talking about a subconcious level it works like a Trauma, it depends on how big is the trauma, it can last forever and every time the situation or action fire the anchor it produces the same feeling in the person, but since we are talking about a small anchor without too much repetition and use it will last some time, but it will slowly fade with time, if you stop doing it.

There are two major tools that you can use to have more effect...

1. Multiple Anchors / linking anchors; you can make her feel happy, excited and horny by linking all the emotions to the same anchor.

2. Making the feeling grow, Using some techniques like Imagination of heat and emotion flowing through the body and using commands like; FEEL how this HEAT GROWS in your body, reaching every part, How you feel * Anchor* YOU FEEL GOOD , now I want you to IMAGINE this heat ...

You can continue this until you have a very powerful anchor...

I want to try anchoring a scream and a touch to an orgasm, so every time I make the scream and touch that part of her body she gets the sensation of an orgasm or at least see if she gets horny...

I've been studying NLP furiously after reading most PUA books and developed a tasty little trick you're welcome to try...

When you've got past the rapport stage and your chatting comfortably, everytime she or you cracks a joke, snap your fingers and laugh. She won't notice you're doing it, you can also use this after planting a seductive seed during Evo phase shift or something.

Then, everytime the same situation occurs (be it laughing, getting her horny etc) snap your fingers as you do it. Then later, you can do it and her subconsious mind will notice.

Example.

I used it when cracking jokes with a few girls, the one I wanted to notice it didn't, but her subconsious did as later in the evening we were walking down the road, I pointed at a BMW I liked, snapped my fingers and said "wow, look at that car" and she LAUGHED! I thought I'd spare her the embaressment of me asking why she was laughing, I knew why, her mind had related my fingers snapping to laughter and hapiness...

I later used my fingers to get her into bed

It's a nice little trick and it's effective. For reading material i'd suggest starting with 'introducing NLP'.

Any comments, feel free

im pretty new to all this, but this anchoring thing sounds a lot like classical conditioning.

is this just the same concept with different names because they are different disciplines?

(for other psych students out there)