I'm an avid NLP and PUA fan. I saw a youtube video of a PUA doing a fucking fantastic job picking up a chick on a street game. He did some amazing physical escalation, comfort building, rapport building, and used NLP here and there. Being a big NLP fan I took a stab of my interpretation of the mechanism of what he did from a NLP point of view. I've had some friends think that the video is fake, but once you look at it from a NLP perspective, I think its pretty genuine. Hopefully this debrief gives someone a better insight into the mechanism of street game as well as the mechanism of physical escalation and attraction building.
Enjoy and feel free to add your own interpretations and descriptions.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xGH9JemcZOg
0:00 [ the first minutes is a clear example of pre-selection. asian chicks love white guys. (in case you don't believe me read the book "Dataclysm-who we are"-written by developers of OkCupid.]
5:23 [he feels like holding her hand and goes for it!]
5:55[she subtly tries to move her hand away but he persists]
6:27 [hhe still persists]
6:46 [hand touch escalation] (great job!)
7:00 [sympathy]
7:30 NLP: "sometimes something better comes up and you have to just appreciate it" [moves had and subtle gestures to notice his precence]
8:46 confirmation she is in rapport. she pulls out her phone when he pulls out his phone for no apparent reason. then again...chicks always like to play woth their phones
9:01 [she is currently not in deep rapport. him resingsing the gotye song again spoilt the rapport][then he says she's adorbale and asks if he can kiss her to which she says "I barely now you"-(textbook ASD)]
He plays it well....'eskimo kiss'. basically makes a light hearted joke out of something intense.
9:32 "germans are very intense" [he explains his behaviour amd demonstrates that whatever is happening between them is normal for him.
10:15 [massage- always a DHV and a + for sexual attraction]
11:15 random person "EXCUSE ME". she=distracted. he-"I'm listening its cool. [subtle NLP: holds her in state and ensures she doesnt get distracted]
11:22 she is opening up more....she shares her insecurities- "Im not that cofortabel singing in frot of people". [rapport +1, comfort +1]
11:50 [sexual story. +1][puts in the idea of a tongue kiss. NLP. +1]
13:05 "I'm having a good connection w you. you have a good vibe". from NLP point of view this is great connection & comfort building technique.
13:20 NLP excellent execution. "In between us I feel liek we dont need to hide anything. its like- I'M YOU YOU ARE ME
" [this makea re suddenly feel like she completes knows him and can think like he thinks. basically nothing more deeply connecting that if someone thinks that they can think like you.]
14:08 NLP. "who I'm surrounding myself with" [points at self]
"I'm looking for someone who has a psoitive attitude, very chill" [points at her] -[NLP breakdown is that he makes her feel like she is the one who he is looking for. Result is that she feels like he has also preselected her and she doesnt have the doubt in her mind of weather "does he really like me or does he just want to sleep wiith me".
16:10 [NLP] "if you just want something" [points at her][result: she knows he wants her...no doubt in her subconscious mind]
[her 'head nodd' at 16:13 is a sign of her subconscioously acknowledging that she approves of his want]
16:29 [excellent hand kino escalation...great job dude!]
16:49 [fingers open. fingers inter lock. interpretation: she is subconsciously ready to get interlocked with him....or in other words, she is subconsciously ready to have sex with him]
18:30 [stupid story....more time pass and fluff talk. normal]
20:08 [he gestures to posters by moving his hand if front of himself-classic demonstration of NLP visual representation. Eye cues. Looking top right=visually remembered.][also a demosntraion of him sharing an image with her. NLP]
20:46 Question: Now is this a coincidence when she said "laid BACK" and then a second later rubbed herr back!? NLP! A lot can be predicted about how people think from what they say!!
22:54 [excellent hand kino escellation smoothly flowinng with conversation!]
22:56 she says "how did you even notice me" [she probably thinks "how the fuck did this happen to me! this guy is cute. what did I do right today?"]
22:23 NLP to the core! "....blah blah... connect with someone deeply...blah blah"
22:39 more connection NLP
22:43 [bold move][kiss close again....leans in after delivering the NLP dialogue about connection][good job gain dude....great hand kino escallation]
24:22 fantastic kino escallation!
25:14 fantastic physical connection. attraction. deep physical connection building. [she is thinking: OMG I love this guy...umm...I really am attraccted to this guy but I dont know why]
25:29 [he moves her hands on to his beard. chicks love stroking a beard. she is wet right now and her voice is getting slurry]
25:58 [she can't hold it back and pretend she is cool. she's not]
26:40 [most guys would hick out at this point. but our man is fucking running head-on]
27:03 "you won't regret it" [I don't knwo the song they were referring to but it appears like at this point she has expressed thet she wants him to stay with him tonight. and he agrees. (man this guy is fuckinng awesome!!!).]
27:21 [after this point onwards he just makes sure she has ASD taken care of and lets her know that she has made the right choice and that she will not regret it]
CHAT