so I have been experimenting with NLP for a couple of months. now i have questions about electing emotions. So I was listening to some of ross jefferies older tapes, and he was saying to make a girl experience, let say a sense of incredible connection, just skillfully describe the state to get her back there.

But i tried something else, I asked a girl what it is like to feel a sense of absolute connection. One girl said it was when she felt comfort and butterflies, and there was this one girl who said "it is when you are experience a sense of similarity yet a difference difference so the connection is exciting because the other person brings something new to the relationship".

Now my question is the following, if one were to describe a state of incredible connection ( e.g. incredible connection pattern) wouldn't it be possible that it wont match here experience of what it would to experience that state, hence she wont experience the feeling. besides when u ask her to describe the sense of connection wont she start to feel that state, and than when use her trance words to describe the state wont it match her experience of connection better?