I disagree with what you guys are saying about embedded commands. In my experience:
They work even if the girl isn't paying full attention, although they more often than not get her attention because embedded commands are usually pattern interrupts in and of themselves.
The topic of the conversation DOES NOT need to have anything to do with what you are embedding, you
can talk about a random subject and embed commands related to whatever emotional state you want. Of course, you can do it directly. If you're trying to embed commands related to deep emotional connection, you can talk about deep emotional connection. {{The Government and Advertising media does this kind of sleight of hand all the time}}
Now you do need to have emotion, as worldrunner has said. That's because if you just stand there and talk about emotional arousal in a monotone voice without feeling it yourself, you aren't utilzing state trancefer at all. In other words, you aren't even
really cummunicating with her. Also, people don't trust that sort of "detachment" because it's incongruent. It's like being a kid when a tornado is whipping through your neighborhood and your Uncle says "Now look kids, everything is gonna be alright."
Now with that said, saying "got no response" is impossible. Just by the fact you're communicating with someone, you're always getting a response. The art is identifying the response and adjusting it towards your goal.

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