Ok. So let's take the door for example. In this pattern you anchor feelings of pain and loss to the door. How does that make her clingy and get her to want you. I don't get it. If the feeling of pain and loss was anchored to the door then she would only feel pain and loss when you walk out the door. Not when you leave in general. I don't understand how anchoring pain and loss to the door has any connection to you or why it would work even if it did. Could someone explain this too me? Thanks for any replies.

Ahh, it doesn't work.

Anchoring loss of yourself to negatives and you coming to positives is a good idea, but you have to be DIRECT on the anchor.

e.g. It smells nice whenever I'm around.
When I leave something bad starts happening.
When I come she receives pleasurable feelings (touching her in a way she likes, bringing chocolate with you anytime you meet her, if she likes chocolate, note to not have it as a gift but instead a thing you bought for yourself and you're just not pushy so she can have some.)
Anchoring arousal to you. (Talking about or doing things that arouse her around you, doesn't have to be touching her or being sexual directly, it's like watching porn together and yeah, you may need to be aroused aswell.)

When I anchor i do it as positive feelings to me. That way when i leave it has the same effects. when i am around positive when i leave negative. No point with a door unless you anchor it to you. and make yourself positive. Seems like to much work for the benefit.

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