| I was in your place, and it was even for people that I wanted to just F*ck. However, for me, when I realized that hey, I'm a good guy, I'm a guy who she would be lucky to know, I'm not mean, I'm not evil, I actually want to show her a good time, and enjoy her company and get to know her. But, if I can't get her interested in me, then she'll never have that wonderful experience.
I know that sounds incredibly narcissistic, and yet, when i started thinking that way, the patterns began pouring out, and the girls began pouring in, and I've not had one bad result. I'm still friends with all my exes on facebook, i still see them at parties and clubs, and we still talk, and they'll introduce me to other boyfriends.
Just imagine that if you like this person and you know she would a wonderful time and a better life by having another person in her life, someone she would really hit it off with, but, you have to convince her, then wouldn't you, or, would you let some weird feeling get in the way of letting her meet a great guy that could truly brighten her life.
This is to say, bring your intentions to the front of your mind, and remember why you want to do this with her. If your motives are honorable then you'll eventually lose those feelings.
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