Is there any ways to inspire extreme loyalty.. Maybe any patterns that even if someone used a ross jeffries bf destroyer would fail? Something that would keep me on her mind unable to be "wiped away, forgotten, seem unimportant"... Something that would automatically put all guys even mpua's in the friend zone?

If you have an extreme emotional connection with her she'll be loyal.

- Energetica

I bet there are some political leaders and dictators who wish such a pattern did exist But I don't think any pattern can force someone to be loyal to such an extreme. Hypnotists are pretty clear that people will rarely go against strongly held values even under hypnosis.

So in order to really gain loyalty you are going to have to earn it. NLP can ease the way a bit. But I can't imagine a pattern is going to make someone loyal to you in the long run.

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googled it.. it seems pretty strong material.. how ethical is it to run this routine on your own girlfriend?

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"It's disrespectful not to bang them when they sleepover." (Hellhound)

revenge is sweet, very much so. but that is not the case. I have found out evidence of exactly the contrary (loyal honest and affectionate girlfriend)
I would use the pattern to make sure she sticks around and does not return to indecisive mode and maybe even to her original line of thought that she needs to be with some random nice Jewish guy instead of with me. basically securing our commitment.

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to the best of my knowledge no. as far as I know, the only person who tried to influence her away from me (a past hookup) has been rejected and never contacted again.
any hints on such positive patterns? I tried the one in which I ask her about the color of her emotions, but she realized she was being gamed and broke it off.
I feel she knows it's good to be around me. I want to make sure she knows it's bad not to be around me.

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it's totally un-ethical, I'm not against most "forbidden paterns", but "the door" is cruel! You are anchoring feelings such as fear and paranoia with the action of not being with you, you are making her dependent. Dude, what if you leave her some day? You are destroying her!
I would prefer to anchorage very strong positive feelings with you, if these feelings are sufficiently strong she will be loyal, as you are making her happy in a way that nobody can, she don't want to lose you.

I tried the door last night. I delivered a milder version without the long pauses, and without making an explicit reference to a just-happened tragedy. Plus, it is my second attempt at NLP, so I am sure I made a bunch of mistakes. (probably, if I were very good at this, I would not deliver such a strong pattern)

Still, she had watery eyes all through the conversation, in spite of her attempts to rationalize the potential loss (I would still have memories, I could end up in another relationship, ...). When I shut the door, she ended up crying. I consoled her, told her to stop worrying about the door, and that I would be there to take care of her because I love her. I could definitely tell she was scared and searched my hugs for reassurance. This morning she again told me "no more doors - that was weird". "Yeah, honey, don't worry. The door is open and we are here"

So much for my delivery of the door.

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"It's disrespectful not to bang them when they sleepover." (Hellhound)

I had to reassure her.. she was crying and shaken.. I could not leave her broken all night long.. she is my GF after all. this morning when we woke up she asked me not to talk of the door again, so I guess something is stuck into her..

for a second try, I was pretty surprised at the result.. and slightly guilty that I caused that... I saw why the pattern is "forbidden".

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"It's disrespectful not to bang them when they sleepover." (Hellhound)

I agree, but I personally prefer a happy and equilibrate girlfriend and not a paranoic girl that can't separate from you. Only an opinion

just had this text convo with J:


Seagull:
had lunch with Italian friends.. one of them was saying how he went to bed late last night and was woken up at 5am by an email from his boss (related to the evenings+weekends working I was telling you last evening)... made me very grateful about the pleasant start of the day you and I had
J:
Was just thinking about you glad you sent me a text!
Seagull:
good thoughts I assume was thinking about you too.. and really glad to have started the morning with you in such a good way!
J:
Yes absolutely baby! Me too! And remember, the door is open!

I guess she is still thinking about it. I will wait a few minutes and then reply "yeah. will talk to you later honey "

EDIT: she sent a pic of a sunset. I asked "romantic sunset?" and she replied:
"Yes just a reminder the door is open. The whole door closing thing scared me "

my reply: "yeah open. will talk to you later honey "

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"It's disrespectful not to bang them when they sleepover." (Hellhound)

I hope she doesn't get so attached to the door that she forgets she should be attached to me
and of course, that she doesn't freak out every other second that I am gonna disappear from her life.. I have no plans to do that

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"It's disrespectful not to bang them when they sleepover." (Hellhound)

Remember the old saying, "Be careful what you wish for because you just might get it." The Door is a dark and forbidden pattern for a reason, it truly attacks the mind of your partner, it's been known to create stalkers, obsessives, and the absolute loyalty that you wished and craved for.