I've been to the introduction to NLP and the coach said that people that tend to be more visual or auditory or kinaesthetic attract each other more. visual people visuals, auditory attract auditory people etc. because our brains can recognize subconsciously those things... So he said that when you feel that familiarity with somebody because they're so like you and you are attracted to them (because they create rapport because of similar thinking and other things..) it's all a subconscious process.

So if 10 women walk into a room and you instantly scan them all (like we all do automatically) and you like 2 of them (you are attracted to them, you feel good next to them). Is this because they are so like you and you can see those things in their body language etc. subconsciously?

Would that explain why girls that i am really attracted to are attracted to me automatically (they're giving me more IOIs than the girls i am not attracted to) and i see them the first time and don't do anything? or i am just focusing on them and changing my behaviour when they are around and they notice that and they are attracted because of that?

i'd like to explain what this is happening and if it can be connected to that.

If anyone has experience with that or thinked about that, please answer hit me with your knowledge haha

you raise some fascinating points! but dont forget the visual\audio\kinesthetic modalities are not all or nothing, it has been my experience that most of us have a favorite system, but we use all of them in our lives. if youre visual and find a kinesthetic girl you can use kinesthetic imagery (see what i did there) to bridge the gap between you two or use kinesthetic words to speak her language.