Guys ( and some girls apparently),

I'm with this chick that has never had an orgasm from penetration. I'm sure this is somewhat common, but I haven't been with a chick that couldn't orgasm before. She can orgasm when she masturbates and oral sex, but never when we have sex. I told her its a mental mood and her mind has to be in the right place (ie, not thinking about work). Are there any NLP techniques I could learn to make her climax? Or are there some girls out there that can't physically climax during sex?

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No that is simply not possible, compare it with for example derren brown getting a guy drunk. He takes a long time to do this and can only be done if the person is familiar with the feeling. Also is an orgasm so heavy it can not be anchored. Arousal can be anchored, only to get the mood faster.

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RedJohn

Encourage her to touch herself during sex (establish the frame that you're telling her to because you enjoy it yourself, not because you're insecure about 'pleasing her). She'll likely orgasm, and it may establish a Pavlovian link between orgasming and sex with YOU, so perhaps over time she'll orgasm with less/no self touching.

It may also encourage her to allow anal, if she hasn't already or it hasn't come up. Many girls like to touch themselves in front while being taken from behind (either vaginally or anally), likely b/c then her hand is not on the way of your pelvic bone meeting hers, and she feels less self conscious about touching herself then (b/c you can't see it directly).

I'm sure the internet has more detailed knowledge on this (though finding the authoritative tuff may be difficult.) If you want her as a LTR it could be a great thing to strive for though....or if you can give her penetrative orgasms and no other guy ever has, she will likely became very devoted to you.