Ok, so Im not that into nlp, im more of a dhv and push pull kind of guy. But how do you guys get something like the incredible connection pattern to work? I just cant imagine it working. Is that what you guys thought at first? how do you make it work? thanks guys

O i c. thank you for your help tony

To be honest, I love game (daygame in particular) and hypnosis, but I wouldn't be able to get the Incredible Connection pattern to work. The kind of person that can get away with that weird shit is too far removed from me. I don't wanna be the weird "energy guy" - I like being social and somewhat normal.

Also, I see what TonyKing is trying to say, but there's no point trying to act weird. My motto: if it's not conversational, you're doing it wrong. I hate this myth about a "hypnotic voice", or "soul-gazing", and emphasizing commands and that. Why do you want to look like a weirdo? That's not what NLP or covert hypnosis is about. On the contrary.

The reason we have conversational hypnosis is so that you DON'T do this kind of stuff. CONVERSATIONAL.

So basically the key is to make the pattern seem like it naturaly belongs in the conversation?

This has been discussed a dozen times. People should really start to use the search function.

Hey man. How you doing? I only know of Tony Robbins and I got a Paul Mckenna book that came with his hypnosis cd. I actually put it both on my smart phone. More recently, I finished Natural Tim's flawless Natural program and I will be putting that on my phone too. Fortunately, smart phones tend to compress files to get more stuff on such a small unit. I think you could find more resources out there but, you could also create your own. Having finished Flawless natural, Tim says he opens with, "Hi I am Tim." The DHV is in him walking up to the girl. No girl is higher value then him. Its a interesting way to look at it. Now, I like Mystery too and I notice iois as well. The week I finished flawless natural, I picked up lots of girls, lots of contacts, numbers, and it felt so natural. I just did what I know myself. Tim says that, he shows you what he does but, this is his stuff, and that, you can create your own. That is what I did but, he definitely is special and a role model. Find something that resonates within you man. There are so many resources today that you can find. Good luck.

The way I bring it up in a conversation is I will quote a magazine like, "I was reading an article about the differences in how men and women get together, and it said that, with women, it's very important that they FEEL A CONNECTION. For example, I don't know if you can imagine this as I describe it, but, have you ever felt that connection...blah blah blah"

You don't have to quote a magazine, you can quote anything.