Hey guys I figured I would just introduce this thread, as a place to discuss framing, and how to hold positive productive frames, give perspective and ask advice, on ways people set frames, disguard frames, and holding your own frame, when a good time to jump into another persons frame, and when is a good time to stay neutral, accept another persons frame, but not get sucked into it,

over all FRAMES AND FRAME WARS, post your frame wars (conversations/text/chat logs, critique your own inturpretation of what is happening, ask for advice, give advice/opinions/perspective on other peoples frame wars etc.)

obviously most of us know good frames to introduce are:
frames set to percieve us as higher value,
sexual frames,
non judgemental frames,
screening frames,
frames that present vunrabilities,
frames of discression,

it is also sometimes fun in discussion and good practise to present yourself in a bad light, then attempt to re-frame,

for example, you know i have allways seen myself as sort of a clown,
but sometimes people need a good laugh, it is a comforting feeling, knowing someone wants to make you feel good and see you smile


i also would love to hear opinions on, if someone continues to ask,
you want, questions, is it ok to qualify,

do you want me to cuddle?, do you want me to xyz?, when is it ok, to allow the person in the frame war to know what you want, or am i reading into this too much and over analyzing

appreciate your thoughts and input on the subject guys