I was hoping that maybe someone could help me come up with a lifestyle changing routine. From previous posts in this forum I'm basically in a relationship with a girl that's kind of like a rundown Bentley . Classy , sophisticated , beautiful too look at ...... but needs a little refurbishment and she will be perfect .

Shes unusually lazy for a girl and she has an unhealthy attitude to life .

I want to try and make a routine that associates unhealthy eating and drinking as being negative and healthy living and exercising as more positive.

Im going to post my own ideas on this post later when I have more time to thoroughly think a routine through . However I would appreciate someone who is more experienced helping me with this .

can i retort something then why are you with her if you want to change her? if the roles were reversed she probably wouldnt be with you if she thought that

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good question , and not in a nasty way but i truly don't know and don't care either, why question something if your pretty much happy with it .

peoples flaws make them attractive no ones perfect the thing is some would say reward good behaviour and punish bad, but i wouldnt recommend it

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life sucks and then you die! deal with it

Although this pops an alert flag or two I will tell you this ...

In order to perform this miracle you are asking for you would first need to understand what it takes to change someones personality ... why not start with yourself and then .. once you have done it yourself ... you will know what to do and how hard it is to do it.

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MK

Cheers for the input so far guys , I dont like using nlp , i enjoy the idea about it but i believe its cheating in the seduction community . This girl Im seeing wants to change her self but being lazy she cant be bothered to do anything about it ,and being a guy i know its penis suicide to say yeah you need to change .

For these reasons my general routine is a reward and punishment one .

Everytime i catch her doing something majorly unhealthy im going to call her by her full proper name ( which she hates ) although this will be a pretty weak form of association its all ive got so far .

Im still working on a way of positively enforcing and associating a healthier life style.

Im going to try and anchor her to associate drinking green tea as fun and tasty ( god knows how ) but its a start

nlp isnt really cheating, i have no moral objection to using nlp to me its just a way to get an advantage im not really a great conversationalist so using nlp gives me an alternative

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well it depends to the extent that you use nlp . I talk about different nlp methods to girs because it interests them ( that would be a low extent) but if your faking attraction by overly tricking the mind and constantly using nlp to get from opener to lay (high extent) then tbh your not just cheating attraction , your cheating yourself and its not nearly as fufilling as doing it yourself :\ but whatever works aye