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I love SS, but patterns without knowledge of the structure and mechanics , won't work.
I disagree ... here is why !
We all use patterns event tough we dont know it. THe whole reason that patterns work is because ... well .. because they work. Our minds operate in patterns that the ones that people come up with and publish are actually stories that FOLLOW a pattern. The pattern is not the words that are said .. they are the pattern that the words (and body language and tonality and gestures and symbols) follow.
You could actually do and say everything in patterns and no one would know what your doing because they would say "oh him ... he's weird ... but a true natural with the ladies" .. why do they say that ? I dont really know but I would venture to say that "sour grapes" has a part in labelling NLP and patterns as things that dont work because someone tried them once and nothing happened so that means they dont work.
But I can and do make them work ... and I know that everyone uses patterns ... are they good patterns ? Not usually ... and the ones that are good are delivered like it was a Disney promo ...
and the absolute worst perception is that one could toss out a couple patterns like they were hundred dollar bills and the bitch drops to her knees and starts sucking ...
Aint gonna happen boys ...
Pattern are a way to illicit states. Both psychological and physiological. and once in that state the woman will have a perception of you which is normal for when she is in that state.
IF you pattern her for fear ... she will not be inclined to have sex ... I think that is pretty easy to figure out ... and reciting a pattern but not knowing how to Identify her state is also not going to get you laid ... You really need to have some experience with states , frames , physiology , psychology , anatomy and a big heap of language skills to master the art.
But once you do ... you will have more pussy than you even want .. just like me !!
Most guys say ... I want that girl to be my girlfriend ... but I say
"I am going out to meet ten more women .. and I am going to fuck some of them too !!" .. because thats my
pattern of behavior !!
Have Fun
MK