I'm guessing nobody knows what these seduction questions are and that's why I've gotten no responses. Here they are in Ross Jeffries's own words:
Six Seduction Questions
Hey Bros,
Just playing around with seduction questions. What think ye of these?
RJ
1. If you could name 3 things about yourself that are uniquely
attractive...that have nothing to do with your physical appearance, what
would you say they would be?
Purpose: shows you are screening her.
(Note, I would not open the conversation with this. I would do a few minutes
of other chit-chat first. And I would soften it by saying, "You seem like a
person with some dimension to her..who knows herself..IF you could name 3
things....)
Secondary purpose: sets up you naming 3 things YOU find attractive in women:
A. a sense of humor
B. a sense of adventure; it's great to enjoy what you already know, but you
also have to have that ability...to find...and follow...your desire...to
move beyond what you already know...move in a new direction(nude
erection)..you know you want to take
a nd finally, Debby:
C. a great imagination; it's ok to be inside your box..but to think outside
your box..to be able to imagine something really amazing..something bigger
than you've been used to....thinking....find the place where you don't care
what your friends would think because maybe you'd just keep this...for
you....that's really amazing.
Third purpose: move to demo
Like, I was learning in this seminar about a really cool way to visualize:
Go to blammo
Or
I learned this really cool visualization game called the Cube
Or
It's like this question I heard at a party: if you could go somewhere where
no one knew who you were..and nothing you did there would ever get back to
anyone..what kinds of experiences do you imagine you'd like to
have...whatkind of sensations would you want to feel..with what kind of
person would you like to experience this...now...with me..I find..when you
LET THAT QUESTION roll around inside you're MINE......really see the
images..keep feeling the feelings...you realize you really can PUT YOUR
FINGER ON THE SOURCE OF SOME EXCITEMENT(anchor with a finger touch)
Seduction Question #2: When you really want to cut
loose..escape..indulge..what kind of things do you imagine doing..and what
kind of things do you imagine doing but haven't yet let yourself try?
Purpose:(anchor her responses, ask questions to deepen responses,
incorporate her responses, sets up theme of indulgence, adventure, escape,
screens for sense of adventure and openness to strong responding)
Secondary Purpose:(allows you to move into theme of learning about people by
learning where they find their sense of indulgence and escape)
Possible transitions: blow job pattern; two kinds of indulgence: compulsion
and anticipation
Other possible transitions: theme of different places in the mind:
"It's like I was reading about how there are really different places in the
mind. The place where you keep your check list..thethings you have to get
done. Then there's the social approval layer of the mind where you have all
the messages about who you should be, what you should do, who you should
want, etc. etc...
There's the third level: where you keep all the roles and rules; it's the
illusion of self and illusion of choice where you are Debby the daughter,
Debby the friend, Debby the girlfriend,e tc.
But then, there's the fourth level..and all that is here..is what pleases
YOU most..what would touch YOU most..in all the ways YOU WANT TO BE
TOUCHED....because you know you will NOT be judged...because you feel SO
FREE...SO EXCITED..and also so ACCEPTED AND SAFE..that what YOU WANT CUMS
RIGHT TO THE FORE...PLAY..FUN...BLISS.it's all here for you..NOW..with
ME..."
Third Seduction Question:
Do you think men understand women?
Purpose: sets up question of what women really respond to/want as a means of
opening these responses in her.
Possible places to go: incredible connection/ Gemini Pattern/different ways
women can experience an attraction/love vs attraction(for men, they decide
right away, but for women, they have feelings in the present moment, but
also..afterwards..when you go home..and think about this person)
Secondary places to go: It's like this poem:(go into poem)
Other places to go: Men have one compartment in their mind: sex. Women have
different places in their mind(see second question)
Variation of this whole thing: as a set up, say "I don't know if men
understand women, but I can explain the entire psychology of women to men in
3 jokes.
Then go to my 3 joke stack which I wrote about last week.
From there you can go to, "Actually, I have a friend who claims to
understand women. He says(go to incredible connection/Gemini
Pattern/different ways women experience attraction/love vs attraction etc)
Fourth Seduction Question:
If you could go somewhere, where money and time were no object, where would
you go..and what do you think you'd enjoy the most?
Purpose: tests their ability to visualize, allows you to open up part of
mind linked to escape and adventure, sets up more riske' question, tests
response and comfort BEFORE moving into more riske question
Possible places to go: From there, go to the question about, "If you could
go somewhere where no one knew who you were..and nothing you did would get
back to anyone who DID know you..what kinds of experiences would you like to
have..with what kinds of sensations would you feel....now...with what kind
of person would you like to experience this?"
From there: different places in the mind, blow job pattern, etc.
Fifth Seduction question:
When you were a little girl, what was their some favorite kind of candy that
you really liked?
Purpose: gets some age regression. Opens up topic of treating yourself,
indulgences.
Follow up patter: You see, I think so many of the pleasures we have as
adults are actually more influenced by what we craved as kids than most
might think..
Like, yesterday I saw something so fascinating at the Starbucks. I watched
this mother with her 3 year old kid..and she had a cookie for the kid..and
the kid was so excited waiting for the cookie from her Mom..and then...as
her Mom handed it to her...and she reached out for it....her face lit
up..and she took that first bite...and just went "mmmmmmmmm"
But a few minutes later I watched this business man in his 50's come
charging in with his briefcase, yelling into his cell phone head-set..but
when he got HIS cookie, he took a bite..and his face changed..he smiled like
that little kid..and just...said.."mmmmmmm"
So interesting how...our child like responses sounds....get
moved...into...our ADULT PLEASURES..our ADULT DESIRES...
(You guys have to imagine how I would be anchoring this with objects on the
table or bar counter: get the Essential Skills Anchoring videos to learn how
to do this. Tom, I bet you could see this working!
http://www.essential-skills.com)
Possible places to go from here: Blow Job pattern.
Escape/indulgence/question/
Sixth Seduction question:
Have you ever noticed how:
A. Time seems to pass differently according the mood you are in or the
emotion you are experiencing?
Possible places to go: time/timing pattern, Peak Experiences,
incredible connection
B. When you really, really dig someone..someone who makes you feel those
butterflies..that CLICK...right...there...that you tend to look at them
through those feelings so anything they do seems appealing?
C. Some people just seem to have an electricity about them? Like , I have
this friend, Laura, and she isn't the prettiest of girls, but she can walk
into a room...with women way better looking..and she just turns every
head..just takes over the room..with something.....totally....electrical.
And it made me think: what is it about certain people...that
just...totally...fascinates...just makes us feel, when we are around
them...that times slows down...our focus narrows..and everything becomes
this face....this face....this moment you are sharing?
(could go to fascination poem from this etc etc etc)
CHAT