First off let me get this outta the way. Not only is this my first post, I am happily married and have been for 4 years now. Both me and my wife are interested in psychology and we find PUA training to be one of the most interesting niches of sociology.

I have been trying to find a way to give back to the community and I thought NLP would be the perfect starting point!

One of the first things I want to say to amateur NLPers is DON'T OVER THINK IT. Start out with a few simple conditioning techniques on people that you are familiar with before you try and elicit a response from a girl you just met. Here's a few examples I use in my relationship. Anyway these are simple NLP techniques I use time and time again with success. These particular "Anchors" I use these to get my wife in the mood whenever I want (We still have sex 4-6 times a week)

Like most women, my wife loves to receive oral sex. Over the years I have perfected my skills to the point where I can make her orgasm in 2-5 minutes provided that I took my time with foreplay. (It started as a 15-30 minute task so allow me to pat myself on the back). Anyway one NLP technique I use is to create an "Anchor" right before and during her climax. I have two seperate anchors I flip flop between. The first one is to press my thumbs firmly on the bottom of her feet right before the climax. Now listen very carefully. DO NOT try and create the anchor unless you know for sure your girl is not faking it or just "close to cumming". Also DO NOT continue with the anchoring after the climax. Most girls have very sensitive clits afterwards so you don't wanna keep pushing your thumbs down after she cums. Timing is very crucial in NLP work. Another "Anchor" I use is to Moan rather loudly right before and during her climax. (I know it may seem unnatural to moan while giving head but TRUST ME it is well worth taking the effort to do).

Now if done correctly you have just created 2 Very Powerful anchors that can be used to evoke a sexual state whenever you need a hand getting her "in the mood". Now another important part of NLP is how and when to use it.

How to use these: Now part of our everyday affection for each other is basic back rubs and foot rubs while watching TV etc.... As long as you don't over use your "anchor" (I try to reinforce it 2-3 times as much as I use it) then anytime I need help getting her in the mood I can either Moan while im rubbing her (once again I know this may seem odd to you but once you do it a few times you will notice it gets you as excited as it gets her) or I can firmly press my thumbs on the bottom of her feet while im rubbing them. This has been a fail safe pattern I've used time and time again.. DO NOT use your anchor unless your planning on going through with sex or you will "dilute" it. And DO NOT think you can take an angry or upset girl and push on the bottom of her feet and have her rip your clothes off. NLP is not magic, but it can be a VERY Powerful push when you need one.

Over the years we have both created literally a dozen different anchors to be used for sex (ex. I use to be disgusted with feet in general - they were a complete turn off for me. Now my wife has created a total foot fetish in me!). If you guys find this interesting I will be happy to post more everday NLP that we both use in our relationship.

Thanks for reading this long first post !!

Nice post. Never occured to me to use NLP during sex but there isn't any reason why it wouldn't work as you just mentioned.

Looking forward to more posts from you on NLP.

Best,

J-Dub

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I use something like this, I kiss her neck as she is climaxing. Works amazingly well she will literally pounce me when I do it

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jaybot,

Do you kiss her neck only when she is about to climax or do you kiss her neck throughout? I would think that if its throughout, its not really NLP, but I could be wrong.

Never hurts to get a girl to pounce on you though... ; )

Best,

J-Dub

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Its better to be the predator than the prey.

You need to be a good player if your gonna be successful at the game.

Appreciate it B Mitchell,and welcome to the forum.

I've neevr really been into NLP(thought it was devisive)but you'r making me reconsider.

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