How to reframe her "I'm not hooked in the first night" attitude

Im not so good on those topics, but I know that theres one way to change the genereal meaning of a social interaction. Its called "reframe" I guess.

Well, last saturday Ive tried to pickup one babe, and were in a very good conversation, but she just started to talks how she hates one night relations, and every-fuckin-else. I know that if she starts to talk how shes a good girl, she will be a good girl, she needs to be congruent with her acts and words, even if shes faking that.

Then I've realized that is a almost impossible set in the moment, so I just get her contact, to a future moment.

I dont want this happening agay with any other girl, how could I handle with that?? How can I reframe that?

If you need any more information to understand the issue, ask me!

Thanks dudes.

Fu$$

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I realise my feedback doesn't fit in with an "nlp" but I think from my experience (as someone who has successfully slept on first dates, etc.) this is a case of "prevention is better than cure".

In other words, making out/going to bed on a first date is a LOT easier when you give her something that conjures up desires to make out or sleep with youin her mind, and then take it away. Like light touching, and then not touching at all for a while and then repeating, and then getting close, and then taking the physical closeness away, etc. She will reach a point where she just can't take it anymore.

In my experience, "defences" like "Oh I don't make-out/sleep on the first date" are best prevented with the above measures right from the outset.

But she was talking about other guy in the moment, who tried to pickup her, its not about me. She was defining herself.

The deal is, shes needs emotionaly to be congruent with their words. And I need to put it down, reframe and change the meaning of her actions.

Fu$$

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Nothing great will ever be achieved without great men, and men are great only if they are determined to be so.
- Charles de Gaulle

It's never too late to be who you might have been.
- George Eliot