NLP tricks I have experimented with:

During a date: "You're having a good time with me?"

If said at the correct moment with the right intonation, then I have found it a useful tool in getting her to associate my presence with a good time. Grammatically it is an imperative or command, tonally, it is a question. The anwser is embedded in it! Granted, if you're a bore to begin with, then fix that first. LOL.

In a group: When anything is said that ellicits a group laugh make brief and confidant eye contact with her. Kino if possible. You have to be genuine though. She'll subtley begin to associate your eye contact and touch with uninhibited joy. Has worked wonders for me.

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My self esteem went through the roof, man I got my swag. -- Jay-Z

No wonder I've acted like an AFC my whole life; I'm clueless to the signals women often send! As I was writing the above post, a woman I was gaming at the cafe I'm at approached me doing the following:

She dropped a small piece of paper with a fortune on it in front of me, while simultaneously giving me upper arm kino and inviting me to a poetry reading she'd be at. I knew it was a strong ioi, but failed to understand she was using NLP (probably at an instinctual or semi-aware level). The fortune was used to "anchor" my memory of her with her kino and invite. Clever gal!

Any comments one can write or point me to on the use of "momentos"?

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My self esteem went through the roof, man I got my swag. -- Jay-Z