| ok just to test the water... iv never tried any NLP'ing or anchoring... but tomorrow im goin on a date, i was thinking of trying this...
in previous conversation she said she used to study psychology... so i said i read books on it and find it really interresting... when the truth is iv only read NLP books...
so tomorrow i want to get onto the psychology subject, then say "can i try something iv learnt? its a possitive frame exercise." hopefully she says yes...
do the...
"close ur eyes, think of a time of your life when you were most happy. where where you, what did it look like, what did it smell like, what could you hear... for me it was graduation, just picture this moment in ur mind... now as this moment goes on like a motion picture imagine the lights getting brighter, the smells getting strong, the noises getting louder, on the count of three i want you to screem in ur head the word perfect. keep those strong senses growing, feel ur hapiness getting warmer, and more intense, one... two... three."
she says perfect in her head, i kiss her on the lips (no tongue)
anchoring the happy fealing with the word perfect and my kiss...
we are past the kiss stage tbh... but i think it would be quite romantic (in a way),
il follow up with "now how do you feel?"
i suppose the proof is in the answer she gives...
i really dont wanna be a sleeze with any nlp stuff... so if this sounds at all like a kreepy thing to do tell me and i wont do it...
cheers
Mark
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