Alright, I looked into Ross Jeffreys work and came up with a great way to build comfort. After running the cube tell the HB you are a hypnotist, and naturally after telling the HB all about herself she ll want you to hypnotize her. She ll get excited, but you then tell her you can't just do it for no reason. You then go back to NEGing her and when you fill it pertinent say you are ready to hypnotize her. Unlike Jeffreys you aren't hypnotizing for attraction but to make her happy. Ask her what hobby/activity she does for fun that can take her mind off of life. You then have her close her eyes and ask her to imagine nothing but doing the activity. You explain how while doing this happiness should emanate from her heart and start to fill her body. Continue to eg her on and when she seems as though she is a complete peace you tell her to stop and compress the happiness into the size of a pee and give it to you. At this point you use an anchor. I've found a cigarette (assuming they smoke) to be very useful. You then place her happiness in the cig and tell her that all her happiness is contained in this single cig. With a cig you then remind her to think of all the bullshit in life and allow it to agitate her. Then put the cig in her mouth and light it. Tell her that every inhale of smoke is filling her body with happiness, and that every inhale allows her to imagine doing her hobby. Encourage her then entire time she smokes. At the end of the smoke she is completely happy again. She will look up at you and smile and say how cool it was. To this end you tell her that every smoke from now on should remind her of this happiness and every time she smokes it should fill her with happiness.

I've done this a few times and the last one not only brought a girl to tears she was so happy, later that night she bitched at a friend for messing with her cig because "It meant something to her now". We proceeded to talk all night and cuddled to sleep - she had a boy friend to

You're anchoring happiness to a cigarette...

Bad idea if you ask me, as this will just make it exponentially harder for her to quit (if she chooses to do so).

If you're using NLP as a seduction tool, why not anchor to yourself? or to something that you can do to her ( i.e. touching her ribs, or a knuckle, etc. )?



If you have moral problems with anchoring to yourself, then honestly think of what anchoring to a cigarette does to her...

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Lol again this is an old post. Made when I was first using NLP over 9months ago. I linked it to a cigarette because it was something I could use on hand. Thanks for the lesson on morals there buddy, but you use the tools that are present at the time; and back then anchoring to myself wasn't within naive ability.

No harm done. Next time though, it might be a good idea to re-read things before you copy/paste them. Its obvious you understand things, but the average-joe-forum reader may not. Just gotta make sure things are good for the little guy, ya know?

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I actually posted this along time ago on another account name. I had guys ask me about the anchor and I told them you could anchor it to anything. Its not in the NLP section, because back then there was no NLP section.