Hey forum newbies and also advanced guys, Kenny teaches you a solid lesson in how to be persistent and subtly break down resistance to get women to come along with you.
Three things in Game that get my blood boiling:
1.) Seeing guys settle for measly phone #'s and promises from women.
2.) Seeing guys allow women to outsmart them.
3.) Seeing guys give up way too easily.
At this super-advanced stage in my game, I tend to have zero patience for guys who are satisfied with settling for meager wins in Pickup.
For instance; getting a girl's phone # in my eyes is now seen as 5 steps backwards when you should be progressing by any means towards sex...the ultimate goal.
Anyway, in this latest Pickup, I happened to be passing by a business establishment (which I frequent for day game) and spotted a chick who was virtually scantily clad, which led me to approach and open her right away!
Instantly I knew she was British from the accent.
Cool!
I have a high-percentage bang rate with U.K. girls, which leads me to the belief that Brits are the easiest girls on Earth [from experience and history].
Therefore, whenever I come across a Brit', I'm like a shark in bloody water.
Nevertheless, irrespective of the girl, being persistent should be protocol.
As you'll see in the video, she tries to throw shit loads of objections and rejections @ me in order to wiggle her way out of coming with me but I executed the best routine possible to handle such objections: LAUGH...then plow forward like a fucking bulldozer!
Strongest frame wins.
Don't know what that means or entails [frames]? I'll teach you right now.
As you'll see in the video, If a girl says to you: "I have a boyfriend".
That is her frame/position/reality.
Whatever you chose to rebut with- is your frame/position/reality.
The person [male or female] who has the stronger or strongest frame/reality/position/belief wins!
Simple!
She said she has a boyfriend.
I rebut with: "I don't respect your boyfriend".
Now there are 2 frames on the table: mines and hers.
Her position/frame is: she cannot come with me because her boyfriend back in England won't approve and she'd promised him not to talk to any guys while here in the island on her "business" trip.
My position/frame is: I don't care about her boyfriend neither what he thinks. He doesn't count as long as she's here. Plus he wouldn't know.
Anyway, in the end: my frame won!
My reality and position were stronger than hers.
Is it because I'm smarter?
No!
She's probably smarter than I am!
Frame battles all come down to which person of the 2 can remain more steady and has more conviction in their position.
This all intertwines with "Persistence".
I was way more persistent in my frame and goal than she was in hers.
This' what we call frame battle: the girl objects, you rebut, she resists, you persist (however wisely).
All throughout the video, frame battling was taking place BLATANTLY.
As for being persistent without being needy; that is neither here nor there in my eyes.
My advice on that is that it's better to be needy than to throw in the towel and not persist at all. So you should not be preoccupied with thoughts of "I don't wanna keep trying or else I'll come off as needy".
If you have to risk coming off as needy in order to get the girl to leave with you, then that's what you should do.
You don't owe this girl shit, and she doesn't owe you shit, so if you do come across as needy while persisting: you have nothing to fucking lose with a random stranger!
Apart from that, the problem with most guys is that they give up at the 1st. sight of objection and resistance.
You should push and insist in what you want even to the point of annoyance or pissing the girl off.
You should rather err on the side of being needy than to settle for a virtual non-financial promissory note or rain check aka phone number.
If a girl doesn't come with me now, I don't take her phone # as a backup plan for another day or day 2.
It's either now or never!
That is my novel frame. That is the mindset in which I come from.
My 2014 unofficial resolution was to NOT get any girl's phone # by any means at all, and I've stuck to that position thus far and don't plan on back sliding.
No matter how hot the girl is, if she doesn't come with me now; I say sayonara [goodbye], extract lessons from the interaction and on to another chick.
When you adopt that all or nothing frame, you'll naturally persist since everything is riding on that 1 interaction where phone # isn't an option.
Hypothetically, what if a girl were to hold a gun to your head and say to you: "Persist until you make me comply. If you don't succeed; I'll blow your fucking brains out you maggot"!
Settling for her phone # isn't an option. You have to persist or get your cranium matter splattered all across the sidewalk.
What the fuck would you do in that case!?
Therefore, learn to persist as if a gun were held to your head and your only option is 1 option: to get the girl to roll with you irrespective of her relationship situation and so forth.
Check out the video and learn what persistent is and how to get change a girl's mind by beating her frame down to the ground.
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