I just saw this video and I think is amazing, this is a very short video about the importance of keeping eye contac if you have a good eye contact you are going to make things much "easier" for you. It's one of the best ways to create a sexual frame and it's a perfect way to look powerful as well.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_0RVo-sY ... AAAAAAABAA
I also uploaded a video of Marlon Brando showing how important it's to control the silence, you don't need to be talking during the entire interaction, if you know how to "control the silence" and have a good eye contact, creating a sexual frame would be much easier.
Hope you guys like it.