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I have a problem with this natural mind set.
Yes, it's problematic for you to compromise your values. Except this crap is for PUA to deal with after they reach their goals.
Having sex with many women isn't normal. In a way, you have to sacrifice your morals to have sex with many women. Us newbies accepted this price before we even started.
If I wasn't prepared to give up my values, I wouldn't be on this website. I'd go back to "being real" with women and continuing to be ignored and shot down.
I'm here because I'm willing to sacrifice my well being to get this part of my life handled. I know I'll be screwed up afterwards.
I personally think telling a newbie like myself and others that you can become highly successful with women in any situation (and not just in situations that you are comfortable with) without sacrificing is deceptive.
What makes you think having sex with many women isn't normal? There's a mounting array of evidence (pun intended) to directly challenge the monogamy theory of human relationships.
What makes you think 'being real' was the reason you were being ignored and shut down? That's probably a belief system which will go on to haunt your for years if you don't get it sorted out.