Some months ago I met the most beautiful girl I have ever laid my eyes upon. Soft, milky-white skin, big beautiful eyes, smart and a smile that brightened my day. Somehow I managed to befriend her and we talked quite often. Strange because I usually have so little to say but yet I felt so comfortable with her. Needless to say, I fell head over heels for her until I asked her out and got brutally rejected. She told me straight up that she's not into short, fat guys and especially not someone with as little confidence as myself. I took it hard but I think she made some good points.

I don't want this to happen to me again and that's why I'm here.

I have since lost over 40 lbs and I'm now looking to increase my confidence and flirtation skills. I hope to learn and improve as much as I can. Considering how nervous I am when talking with girls, this might be the hardest thing I've done but I am determined even though I know I will fail a lot.

How should I get started?