Hey Guys,

I'm from Berlin in Germany and just learned about this whole thing about 2hrs ago.
Actually a (very communicative) friend of a friend just asked me if I know about it.

I was seriously surprised that there is a community like this and also happy to see that. Since I broke up with my first serious girlfriend I am getting more and more interested in understanding how women or people in general think. (Really from a psychology perspective.)

Just yesterday I dated someone for the x-th time because of her interesting way to behave. She also wants sex. We talked about that in a very open manner while eating at a restaurant. I am pretty sure I could have hooked her up earlier but I am not trying to do so. I made some ground rules for myself at the beginning like not taking her home. If it happens elsewhere - okay.

As I did not know about this community earlier I also can't tell you what kind of methods I 'use'.
That will probably change after some reading.

My hobbies mainly are climbing and going out but I also enjoy things like Go (an ancient chinese game similar to chess). All in all I am pretty open for everything.

Goals... I am not searching for the death proof way to bang that girl I know. Actually I really enjoy conversations and having fun together dancing etc.
Overall goals:

-- improving social interaction & understanding in general
-- getting some more female friends to go out with
-- having fun

I also have a great girlfriend but I don't feel like there is a conflict with the goals mentioned above.

EDIT: To also ask something:
For me the hardest part is probably to get into a conversation with someone I don't know. Just read about the 3s rule which is quite brilliant. I am also usually quite good at talking with people and small talk in general... there is just this little "intro" missing. Any general advice?