| Hey whats going on???
I'm a 25yr old aspiring PUA with ALOT of ground to cover between now and maybe 30 (we'll see what happens). Basically my goals are to meet, sleep with, then get to know a ton of women by the time I get there and as of yet I am no where near completing them, and I'm turning to you for help and all sorts of advice...so please HELP!!!
This is basically how my "game" has been going through life...when I was little I had no fear and due to too many "accidental" views of my dad's porn stash, i knew what sex was and started dry humping in pre-school...this graduated to playing "house" with my little girlfriends...well around 12 yr old-ish, my dad noticed that I was always with a girl, pulled me aside, gave me a speech and a pack of condoms and told me that if i ever got caught by my mom, that he didn't know anything!!! Well, my dad could have kept his condoms because around that time I lost whatever magic I had and became extremely self-conscious and girl-less...for a long while...
Around junior or senior year, i finally was back to my old ways except it was never really with a girl i wanted but with someone who could "scratch an itch" instead or someone you wouldn't be caught dead with in front of your friends or someone you ran away from if you met them at the mall...at that point i was just settling for less (not anything) but less...
Early 20's were up and down, i was with 4's and 5's sometimes to maybe 6's and a 7 here and there...but never a girl that was "WOW"...just girls that were maybe cute...finally when i turned 23, my friend basically told me that the reason why was because my confidence sucked and it was advertised in ways that everyone could see. He basically coached me and through me into all sorts of f'd up situations...seriously!!! But i wanted to get better and eventually i did..i started pulling and sleeping with 7's and 8's and even a 9 at one time...but its all so sporadic.
Which brings us to my problem, i suck when it comes to rapport (but its getting better, i still NEED everyone's help) and i've recently learned what actions came off too needy (which turned the 9 off super quick). And my follow up game is...ok at best, which i think is due to poor rapport...
Anyway im here because I genuinely need help. I feel like a friggin caterpillar who is destined to be some kind of killer moth, but is stuck inside of a cocoon that refuses to let go.
I've been doing a lot of research and like a lot of people here...am reading "The Game", i've read some forums, worked on confidence immensely, read a lot of josh pellicer's stuff, ordered "my secret garden", "why women have sex" (two books from recommended by the "same night seduction crew", and have been reading sherrilyn kenyons "dark hunter series" (at least it has some action in it and is not too "romantic" i guess...)and now im here, so i want to learn from you guys...
I enjoy going out and have had a lot of different stories and experiences from them...I guess i'm going to do like Style, and go out, if not every night then at least 2-3x a week if i can. (in fact i was planning on going out 2nite)... it seems to work with getting used to everything, but I feel that i have sooo much more potential, as do we all, or else we wouldn't be here...that's why i stuck this quote into my signature, i figure that it seems to be true, we only go as far as our minds allow...
I didn't mean for this intro to be THIS long, but its actually kinda heartfelt, and i wanted you to know where I was coming from, so thx
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Men are not prisoners of fate, but prisoners of their own mind- FDR
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