Hi, I'm 17years old, from Lithuania. Friends tend to call me Prim.

I'm quite new to all this „PUA“ stuff, but hell it got me exited about it. However, I'm kinda socially dull and there is not many girls that I dated(fear of the approach). Also, I quite recognize that I had that little alpha stuff in my nature, but all that is overshadowed by the fact that I'm shy as hell. However couple years ago I managed to „pick up“ a 7.5 and 8.5 HB at my friends B-day unintentionally, however, I blow it so bad from my "Cool Zen masters image of don't give a ****" to "Dorky wanker" that lets say trolled on their social network pages... wtf I was thinking... Also, at that party those were the girls that my best primary school friend (I think) wanted to pick up, so no wonder why after years of disconnection with him and finally getting invitation to his party we "disconnected" again... again, wtf I was thinking... So this is probably the biggest and most stupid stuff that I did that is somehow related to PUA.


So my question is what are the essentials for a PUA. Cause there is a lot of advanced and complex tactics and outdated as I heard(example: Mystery. Or am I wrong) so that I can't decide where to start. Thanks for the tips.

I believe the study of attraction, which is what PUA is in large part, is like a behavioral science. As you learn how it works, you can use that knowledge to your advantage. Because it's like a science of how humans behave, it is not possible for tactics that work to ever become "outdated". The only thing is that older technologies and tactics will be eclipsed by improved understandings and newer innovations as the art advances. And that's one of great things about having a community like this sharing the knowledge so we can learn from each other and continue to grow individually while also advancing the art as a whole.

It's all trial and error, my friend. We all make mistakes. It's just a good thing that there are so many women out there that we don't have to try to fix those mistakes on the same girls. Live and learn...

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J Wiggles