| First of all, I would like to say hi to everyone. It's an honour to be part of a community where we are all striving to be good with women, and for the most part it's successful.
I'll give you some background of myself. I am the youngest child of 2 as well as 4 step sisters as my parents split up whilst I was at high school, from a slightly above middle class upbringing. I live in Norwich, England. So far in my life, I have felt very fortunate and I always try and make myself look at the positives of life. Now I'm starting to ramble on.
I used to be an attention seeking, confident guy on the exterior when I was at high school, but it was pretty much me trying to cover up the hurt that I had felt and the lack of love that I got in my life. After High School, I went to College. After having a terrible experience there as well as a few fucked up relationships that I took way too seriously looking back on it I have been at an all time low. Hiding myself from the world by playing video games and avoiding all convosations with new people, in case I got hurt. I'm rambling on even more now.
I now however have a new job, go to the gym and have some great new friends. But I still find it hard to have convosations with anyone I don't really know, literally anyone.
This is why I have started to look at becoming a PUA. Not just because I'd love to pull models and sleep with them, so I can enjoy a successful life with new friends and give myself renewed confidence. I have always been told I am a good looking guy actually, people say I look 25 but I'm actually 20. I've known about this community for a few years now but I never really looked into it properly. To be fair, I've read the Mystery Method 3/4 times now (I did read the book twice in a week off as I was round my friends and didn't have anything better to do. He is a very social inept person and would rather play video games), and looked at various topics on here, which have been a great interest. From direct approaches, to inspirational videos that inspire us to do better, as well as openers and routines.
I did make the first approach yesterday, as I needed to buy my sister a birthday gift. There is a Jewellry store in one of our main shopping centres and the girl that greated me was a 7 redhaired girl. We got very indepth and spoke for quite some time about various things, talking about her family and she wasn't close to her brother, embarrassing stories about herself, and happy times she has had. I learnt that to talk about varying moods that a woman will feel investment, and it definitely worked. I did however, not get her number. Mainly as her mum turned up and I thought it wasn't the best time. I am going shopping next week though with my wingman, so I thought I would allow myself to keep the attraction high and then come back. I think it'll work. But looking back on it, I do see how I could of improved my game. Obviously as it was my first attempt, I was slightly nervous and wasn't thinking quickly enough. This is why I think I'm better at texting girls or talking to them on facebook, as I have more time to say the right thing. I suppose in time I should be able to conquer this and be able to say the right things at the right times.
For now though, I am going out to a local town tonight with a few friends and some girls, so hopefully they will allow me to have social proof and DHV. For now, the game has only just started...
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