Hi,

I'm interested in this forum because I truly want to get past my hangups and be able to approach women easily in the real world. I am sooo sick of online dates that go nowhere - I find you can connect with women far better on the dance floor than even 1000 hours of sitting at a table drinking coffee (kill me now if I have to go on even one more of those dates). My end game is definitely to find someone suitable for the long haul but in the meantime I wouldn't be against a few hookups.

I recently got out of a long relationship with someone who was really just a friend and am now looking for some real passion. I got a good view of that a few weeks ago when I got hit on (with no effort on my part) by a really hot woman at a bar that lead to an amazing night. I want more of that and finding women who will aggressively make the first move is very rare so I need to take charge and give myself a shot at this every time I am out.

I am most likely older than most people here (I am 37) but most people think I am around 30 or so. Maybe a little old to try this PUA thing but whatever avenue gets me closer to finding someone I am meant to be with is fine with me.